How long should a man wait to have sex with a woman he likes?

[msc545]

[Anonymous]

LIke others said until both are ready and consenting.

but honestly don’t pass up the opportunity to also ask and let them know that’s what you want. I was talking to this guy who we had sexual chemistry with (only doing oral at that point) and I wanted nothing more for him to initiate and ask later on if he wanted to link back up and have sex. But bc he never did I started doubting it and thinking he wasn’t interested so I gave up.

so don’t be afraid to just tell them and ask. Because who knows they may feel the same. And if they don’t, then you just have to also respect that no is no.

[WhitneySnow]

“Until she’s ready” is the obvious answer to me

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Until both parties are ready and there's a mutual understanding. It's not a set amount of time - with some it might be a few days or weeks, with others just a couple of hours.

[BoopBoopBeep]

If you're not at least heavily hinting at its impending occurrence by the third date I'm assuming you're not that pressed.

[OlderAndWiser]

Are they dating for casual sex ir looking for a long term relationship?

[msc545]

Who knows? Is there a way to tell?

[OlderAndWiser]

If a guy is dating just to have casual sex, then there is no since in waiting. Apparently, there are lots of girls willing to suck, fuck, and more on a first date, so. . . if she's not one of those girls, find out now so you can stop wasting your time and money. If she IS one of those girls, get laid tonight! However, if you are dating for a long term relationship, sex on a first date is a bad idea. Occasionally it works, but quite often your companion will leave the first date with the idea that your primary interest was sex and she needs to keep looking. And, for many people, forcing themselves into sexual intimacy too early leads to feelings and attachment developing too quickly, and that interferes with them making an objective assessment of whether this girl is the right girl for them. And, a girl who isn't ready for sex that early may get offended if you start tugging on her panties. My timeline was First date, I would try to hold hands during dinner and at least get a decent good night kiss (not necessarily inclusing a tonsil examination) Second date, I would continue with holding hands, prolonged eye contact, and maybe a few kisses during the date, with a passionate kiss at the end of the evening Third date, I would do more of the same with a full body hug and hands roaming on her backside combined with the good night kiss.

[OlderAndWiser]

And, assuming that I felt attracted and wanted to move forward with her, on the third or fourth date, during a moent of passion, I woud whisper in her ear, "I like who you are and I'm very attracted to you. I want to be in bed with you and I want to be inside you. . . as soon as you feel the same way about me. In the meanwhile, I'll continue to be a gentleman but once we get in bed, I'll be an animal." And that never offended anyone or pushed them away and they knew to let me know they were ready. I think it's assertive without being aggressive and they didn't feel threatened. But now I'm engaged and all of that is just pages in my history book!

[msc545]

Seems like a ton of work!

[OlderAndWiser]

Work? I had lots of fun and the time building up was just an investment in the relationship; if you want to get something out of it, you've got to put something into it. And since I was in my early 30's, I've dated looking for a long term partner, not a ONS.

[msc545]

One night stands were always very easy for me. The rest not so much.

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, if you are looking ONS, this is WAY too much work.

[madhatters4]

i think there is no hard and fast rule. it really depends on the person.

[ushagomez]

As long as she decides he has to wait.

[236color]

Until she says yes.

[LazerBean]

Until after marriage

[Slingblade1126]

Chef Culo waits until the quaaludes take effect.

[msc545]

@Slingblade1126 LOL! Great answer!

[LazerBean]

Loll

[OfMiceandMen]

About 2 hours, 3 if he's playing hard to get.

[slatyb]

Until he wants to have sex with her (and vice versa)

[DermalPunch]

However long it takes to get married.

You don't have to tell me how much you love my answer. I already know. 😏

[LazerBean]

The hoes always be mad at that one

[DermalPunch]

@LazerBean waiting for marriage? Oh that's too bad.

[sheikalana]

Give it a few dates to get to know her and see if you like her personality.

[RealMarek]

It depends on what the man is looking for. In my current relationship I waited until I was sure we loved each other. That happened more quickly than I expected.

[Jazzy54]

When he’s ready.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If both couples agree and can wait to they get married, I would be okay with it.

[exitseven]

As long as it takes.

[DextroShade]

If she's a virgin she gets a year, otherwise a month.

[gothbxtch]

until both are ready

[Alex-Snow]

Until she is ready for it... which hopefully is not too long

[Twalli]

If you're dating, it's when you both feel ready