How long should you makeout before sex?

How long do you think a couple should take to makeout before having full on sex?

Is this ideally the best way to initiate? Or would it be okay to just kiss for a minute or two and move on?
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  • The definition of "makeout" is still quite vague. Hence I'll take this opportunity to define how I use this term:

    Makeout = foreplay + PIV

    Thus, i can only say, the time period is fundamentally depended on the foreplay.

    It is foreplay that makes her "wet and high enough" for penetration.

    This process may take from 1 minute (she was already very high when entering the bedroom) to 20 minutes (she was not in the mood).

    But when the objective of foreplay is reached, PIV should be within a minute or two where both should attain an orgasm each.

    Thus makeout time is roughly the same as foreplay time, plus a minute or two.

    • Thanks for that answer. Makes sense when you put it that way, where the point of making out is achieving the wetness. I suppose it varies for each girl but my girl takes a while to warm up and I get impatient lol. I usually try to just makeout for a few minutes (3-5) before getting into sex but she wants more like 20-30 🤦‍♂️

    • Us guys are "Fast and Easy", where sex are concerned. LOL! Indeed the primary purpose of foreplay is to help her get wet so that both can enjoy an irgasm during sex. Nevertheless, if we make foreplay fun and naughty, it won't feel like a chore. Hence, instead of "counting time", why not count intimacy, generosity and creativity. When foreplay is fun for both, penetration automatically feels great for both.

    • That's very true that it feels better with foreplay. I really do need to try not to take the making out like a chore haha thanks for the advice man!

Most Helpful Guy

  • just grab her ass when you want and start removing stuff. things should happen at a healthy pace. i can't think of why it wouldn't unless the guy is shy

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  • As long as you both want

  • There’s a perfect time?