How long should you wait in a relationship to let your boyfriend grab your boobs and butt?

I'm wondering because my boyfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months already but I'm afraid we've been taking things really quickly..
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Ethically , as long as everyone is comfortable, its never 'too soon'.

    Are you doing those things now, or just thinking if it. many people do that stuff wayyy sooner. when they are dating not waiting till there's a relationship.

    what have you actually dine?

    anyhow if you feel its too quick it means you're not ready so in that sense its too quick. not morally just too quick as far as your personal pac. dont force yourself bc if you feel compromised it can create a bad pattern down the road that is hard to break.

    respect yourself in the relationship before you worry about your relationship sexual activity second.

  • There's no such thing as taking things too quickly, within reason. As long as you're not sleeping with him on the first date then complaining that he's only interested in sex, you'll be golden.

    Let him grab your boobs and butt when you feel comfortable with it. The 'right time' differs from individual to individual as well as with each situation.

  • Grab my ass... oh.. about 30 seconds..

    Grab my breasts.. that all depends on how things are.

Most Helpful Guys

  • If you feel comfortable with him doing it then it's probably ok. That said he may decide it's not worth waiting. Young men are notoriously impatient. However I don't think there's anything wrong with some heavy petting (I'm assuming this is going on while you make out, if not he's weird) at your age and at that stage of a relationship. If you enjoy it it's probably ok. It isn't wrong. Never let him force you into something you don't want to do though.

  • There's no time frame for anything. There's also 'love at first sight' isn't it? :) :D It's all about how comfortable they feel mutually about it. There are many good relationships that began with a kiss, grabbing the boobs and butt too :)

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  • May I ask how old you are?

    • I'm 17

  • First off... if he's anything of a gentlemen, he will wait to do those things later on down the road like say... WHEN YOUR MARRIED. Dont get me wrong those things are nice but there are more important things in life. Date more... holding hands and sharing a few kisses is fine but a man, a true man respects a woman who with holds the "cookie" and makes him work for it

  • Wait until you're comfortable. It can take awhile when you're younger. When you're an adult and dating, boob and butt caressing tends to happen around date number 3. But that's not the same as when you're younger when it can take several months (as with your case today). Basically as you get older the time you wait before things get physical will get shorter. Probably MUCH shorter. The question to ask is how do you feel about this guy and how do you feel about getting more physical.