1 year. Unless there are extremely rare circumstances if we have been in a committed relationship for more than a year and she isn’t willing to add sex to our intimacy then something is wrong. Obviously your question isn’t for virgins or for women who have suffered past sexual abuse and trained and who are not healthy enough to make love; as well as anyone who is asexual. But assuming we are both healthy and both have a normal sex drive after a year or world be hard to trust sex would ever happen. And I already know from the stats that a relationship completely void of sex generally Is a ticking time bomb.
Is that what you were driving at?
I still expect sex before 2 years for virgins and asexuals. I don't think I would date those who aren't healthy enough for sex. Abuse survivors have no timetable because anytime we try, even after we've done it could trigger an episiode.
If three months have went by and we haven't at least tried oral, then I've gotta split. I don't mind waiting for sex, I understand ladies want to trust a man before she has sex, I understand ladies see more than just physicality in sex, and I do to,
But if three months have went by and she still doesn't trust me with sex, and she doesn't see something more to justify sex, then it wasn't going to work long run anyway.
I won't let a girl have sex with me before 3 months. 6 if she's a virgin. Oral can happen whenever. Although as long as I can cum on her she doesn't have to give it.
I'll have sex whenever its an option but if three months have gone by and its never happened? I'm beginning to think she isn't that interested in me.
I'd expect her to at least try oral before 4 months, but I have heard that some people on here wait 3 months for oral. I wonder how timetables will change with the lockdown
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I'm confused by "will not propose because of her agreeing to have sex with you." Do you mean disagreeing?
I mean sex does not mean I will propose. I won't propose without sex, but just because we have sex does not mean I will propose
I see. Thanks for the clarification.
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