How long would / do guys keep nudes?

i am 19 years old ( i know my profile says otherwise but i didn't know age would show up), and when i was 15 i sent nudes to a few guys via snap and/on facetime. I am now paranoid that i may have been/ will be exposed in the future. If you are wondering some of them showed my face. at the time these other guys were over 18, and isn't 15 child porn? Anyways it has been four years since all this and to my knowledge i don't know. i am sure these guys have had other girlfriends since the time in between, may not even remember me, and may be scared as i was underage, but i am very paranoid. i feel suicidal i cannot even look at myself in the mirror. Around 17 y/o, i converted to a certain religion (no relevance to this), but i am an extremely changed person and looking back i was a very very naive a dumb child. I am scared this sin may affect my future. With all that being said what are the chances of it being exposed?
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  • I keep all of them. I dont share them though. Its just nice to see my old girlfriend as she was when i was 16. Guys my age can't see that stuff anymore without getting arrested. I have pictures literally of the inside of her body (open holes shots) and can see that stuff as an old man someday. My wife knows i keep them and videos of her doing things that her body won't be able to handle forever and i can watch my own young wife doing the most extreme things with a younger man who is me lol. Anyways they all kept them. But you gave it to them. Your body is nothing to be ashamed of. And any religion that tells women they should be ashamed of her body is not a modern, sane religion. Get away from islam and you will see that feminine form and beauty is something to be admired not hidden behind a sheet.

    • Although I agree with most things you said, please don't bring religion into this or tell her to change it.

  • I entirely feel your pain and worry. But you must live your life and do so without any of this stress holding you back. Move on. Be strong. Chances are they'll never come out but if they ever do you will have strong defence against them so don't worry... x

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  • First of all, you were an idiot. Second of all, rejoice. They most likely don't have it saved. 99.9%. Go forth, and sin no more.

  • I would be surprised if they are still in possession of the photos. Usually something like that would be kept on your phone, most people change phones every 1-2 years,

  • I’ve kept a couple nudes and a naked video of my girlfriend. One nude is a full body picture of her about ready to get into the shower and the other is a picture of her butt. The video is her completely naked while she’s thrusting a toothbrush in and out of her vagina.

  • I've never deleted a nude. I don't see why I would unless I desperately needed the space on my PC. Photos are tiny, they're going to be the last thing I get rid of unless I have a massive folder and delete the whole thing in one go.

  • it depends on the guy
    if he is a virgin collector he will keep em untill he is in he's 30's
    if he finds a girlfriend he will delete them and forget asap :)