How long would you wait for a girl until she is ready for sex?

Well i am a virgin and i want to have sex with someone i know i see as my future husband so wondering how long a guy is willing to wait for a girl he loves?😅i believe a year is how long i need to know if he is the right person or not
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But you did not explain why you said she is manipulating you? to me my virginity i wanna give it to someone i see as my future husband soo i have to get to know him emotionally and that takes a while.
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  • Depends on the girl and what her reasons were. A year is an extremely long time, if she hasn't mentioned it and just didn't want sex and after months still wasn't sure about me I'd probably take it as a strong sign she wasn't into me. But if she said early on she's going to need a long time I'd be OK with it if I loved her and we did other stuff.

    • What if she makes it clear from the beginning? That she is a virgin and waiting for the right person and she needs about a year to get to really know you and if you are him

    • Ohhh wait... other stuff?

    • Like I said I'd be OK. But also I'd be pretty confused where this arbritary one year figure came from. Sounds like you've just picked a round number and decided that's rational, when it's actually pretty pointless. You could know someone 50 years and not truly know them if they are a dishonest person, or you can be in love with someone and think they are perfect after weeks or months. So this year thing is really silly to me.

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  • As long as she wants really. Obviously I am going to keep making intimate moves like holding hands or hugging or kissing. To whatever limit she is comfortable with. If she says no or stop, I will stop. For me sex is very important in a relationship but so is respecting her wishes

    • Ty for the MHO

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  • Look sweetheart, don't label it with a specific date or time frame. That's just weird.

    Now are you going to tell him that this is your plan? I suspect not and sooner or later he will ask when. It's a reasonable question. And waiting that long and giving nothing, you'd best get good at sucking cock or anal.

  • I’ve been wondering this too i think a poll would’ve been better tbh

    • Ohhh yeaa i will do that

    • Girl let’s be honest your hormones are going to maje you do it sooner than a year lol i think 4-5 months should be good

    • I’ve never had sex but a lot of people say that you lose your mind when you are with a guy

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  • With my ex (we both virgins then) I waited 9 months.

  • I would wait until marriage. It has nothing to do with manipulation. That being said though, I wouldn't wait much more than a year for engagement. Cut the small talk and get to know a person's character.

  • I think a year is a reasonable amount of time, though I am a rather traditional man myself so perhaps that is not the norm.

  • If she was a virgin, I would wait about a year and a half. If she wasn't a virgin, probably a month, maybe month and a half tops.

  • At my age, i think two weeks is an absolute max. Beyond that, I assume she's not into me.

    • Even if she says she is a virgin? two weeks is a short time😅

    • A virgin who is my age is likely to have other problems indication glaring incompatibilities. Now, if by some curse or luck I found a significantly younger girl I was interested in, and she was a virgin, then I might wait a bit longer. Still not that long, though, as I find vague notions of the value of virginity to be somewhat childish, and an absolutely essential condition before i even consider dating someone half my age is she definitely can't be immature.

    • So you think i am immature to want to give my virginity to a man i love and to whom i see a future with?

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  • Maximum amount of time would be about 6 months.

    • So if she does not give you sex in 6 months what will you do?

    • At that point I'd most likely end the relationship. I of course try to see if we could compromise in some way, but 6 months should be more than enough time to get comfortable with a person. Any longer than that and 1) I start feeling like she doesn't really trust me or feel comfortable with me, and 2) I start getting sexually frustrated, and I wouldn't want her to deal with that.

    • Fair enough

  • Well I knew my current girlfriend since we were 3&4 yo and she was but I didn’t know that she was interested all those years. Does that count?

    • Well if you slept with other people it does not count... because i want a guy to be loyal whiles waiting until i am really, but i believe your story is different because you was not in a relationship with her.

  • As long as she needs.

  • It depends. I probably wouldn't wait a year. I would fall out of love..
    A few months maybe?
    I would never pressure her to, but I would get sick of waiting

  • Forever. I dont like sex anyway, its boring.

  • For me, until after marriage.

  • U mean u wanna marry then sex

    • No mr i mean i want to have sex with a man i know i would want to marry someone i see as a future husband you see😅

    • Oh ok i see is a good strategy 😁 but dont u think is it to much

    • I don't care its what i want to do i refuse to settle for less

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  • as long as it takes

  • Pretty long. It can be done though meaning if that is just intercourse.

    • You can wait a year with nothing sexual?

    • Nope. Thats why i said intercourse probably for sure. But if we had ways to get off then im ok.

    • Even if you loved her? sex comes first?

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  • If she's a virgin I'm willing to wait for as long as is necessary, longer than a year. The only reason I wouldn't wait for a girl is if she didn't make the last guy wait, because that really says something.

  • I wait at most 2 years. I wouldn't have sex with you for at least 6 months, even if you wanted it before then. If you aren't a virgin it's only 3 months.

  • as long as possible, even if it never comes

  • For me, a night is the minimum. 2 weeks is probably the maximum.

  • I think there is no set time. From my internet research, women tend to lose interest in sex, after marriage. And in your instance, if a yr is what you want to wait, what about him if you break up month 11 day 28? So for men, in my opinion, its really picking your battle. Upsides and downsides to each decision.

  • Depends on how much you love her. If you really love her, you can wait a long time as long as you are really happy with the relationship. Since I'm way too old to date young virgin girls, I wouldn't wait more than 2 months

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