How many bodies is too many?

so my body count is in the 40s and I'm 19 is that normal? what's a normal average for my age? should I be embarrassed to tell my future partners that number?
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  • Damn girl. You must have the floppiest vagina out there. What's the matter? Daddy didn't give you enough hugs? Maybe he wasn't around or was too overbearing. Maybe you hopped at any guy who gave you attention because it made you feel wanted, if only for a short time. Who knows. What I do know is that you're quite the slut and would probably fuck all the guys on this board. I'd say any more than your age subtract 15 divided by 3 is what your number should be before I start throwing out the slut word. So for you, that's 1-2 guys, which you've blown by tremendously. Soooo, ya. You're quite the harlot there kiddo. Try to keep your legs closed sometimes.

    • Haha, wow! I think this guy said what everyone else was thinking, good for him! It's a very high number, guys might think differently about girls sleeping around to guys, but its a big turn off when I'm thinking about a relationship with someone

  • It's not something to be embarrassed about, but a lot of guys will not like that number. Still, better to be honest about it than lie about it. They need to know you, all of you so that you know that no matter what flaws you have, no matter what mistakes you have made, they love you for you, not some image of you they conjure up.

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  • I don't think you need to tell them, the past is in the past. But I think at 19 most people would say that's loads but it's your choice and life and you have the right to omake that decision. Personally I've only slept with 2 guys, but it wouldn't matter if I've done more or less than that. It's your opinion on yourself that matters, if you think it's fine then that's what matters. If you view it with a negative light then that's all its going to be.
    Don't let anyone put you down on it.

  • There are a ton of men on here who want virgins and want women to have only slept with 1-2 guys, so I think you're asking in the wrong place. My opinion. 40 people is a high number... I am 26 and haven't slept with half that amount. BUT it's your body, your choice. Don't let anyone tell you what is right and wrong because we are the deciders of what we do with our bodies, all I hope for you is to at least have done all those 40 encounters protected!

  • I personally feel that at your age 40's is a low number. It's really none of anyone's business but yours how many guys you've slept with, after all it's your life, your body and your choice. As long as you've got a clean bill of health no one needs to know how many guys you've been with. I know a lot of 14 and 15 year old girls who've had more guys than you.

  • Are you for real? Why? How? you are so young. you talk like you were forced to be an underage prostitute. how did you get this way? Where was your family all that time?

    As for the partner i think you hav to search for an extremely open minded or apathetic one. or a male player... . But you won't. you'll go for the naive nice guy... .

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  • My number is nowhere near yours but I wouldn't share my number. It's personal, I don't think you need to share it. You share if you're clean or not, that's what you share.

    • i think you are right the important thing is that if u are clean or not, im sure u are clean tho :)

    • @Iamhereee that's the thing you should share, everything else isn't relevant.

    • thats true.. Being clean is the thing which is important, not the number of people u slept. can u private message me tho? i can't since im xper1

  • Do what you want.
    Personally I'd keep the numbers lower, but you do you gurl.

  • unusual but normal and kinda hot too

  • Just don't tell them. You can say "you're experienced" or "you've been around the block", something like that (if asked). I personally don't want to know, especially if it's been a lot, AND, it's not really my (or anyone else) business how many. The past is the past.

  • It is a high figure for someone your age but not necessarily a bad thing - If I met with someone who had a very high number I would talk to them about why it was so high not what they did - Once I understood that I could think about any future we had together - There are a lot of reasons why someone might have a high figure.

  • You should be very embarrassed... I mean i would be, and i'm a guy.

  • You killed that many people? That's the first thought I had when I read this question. Imho meh on sexual partner numbers.

  • Yeeeeahh you're not just living in Slutville, you're the MAYOR!

  • Do you work as an assassin? I might have work for you.

  • Wow. I would be intimitated if i heard that number. Dunno if you should. Some guys actually find it hot but the majority will call you a whore...

  • It's no one else's business of your past. A clean bill Of health is good enough.

  • You are a slut. Not trying to shame you, Im just telling you in case you are not aware. And as a slut, chances are your future oartner is also gonna be promiscuous or simply a stupid guys. Cause most quality guys do not want to marry a slut

  • had sex with? yes like no self respect a lot. like no emotional intelligence a lot.

    i wouldn't consider anyoen with more than 10 sex partners seriously.

    more and younger you do it, the higher risk you are not being in love in a solid relaotnship in your 30s. research has been done

  • whatever makes you happy as long as you stay clean

  • keep growing it but never tell

  • That's so fucking hot! That's way more than normal, but normal is boring.. u should try n hit 50 before new year

  • Anything in the double digits.

  • if you love it increase the numbers.

  • no that's okay

  • Honestly slut isn't a thing. It's your body and you are allowed to sleep with as many people as you want. It's your life and it doesn't affect anyone else. Having sex doesn't make you dirty and there shouldn't be a stigma about it. Don't be embarrassed of it and you should feel free to tell your future partners

    • Agreed

    • thats true babe.

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