How many dates before giving a handjob/blowjob?

FairyRed Xper 5

How many dates should there be before you give him a blowjob/handjob, in your opinion?

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Elliegirl Guru
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About three or four. Kinda depends on if I see it going anywhere with the guy. I can usually tell by that time if there’s any mutual interest in pursuing a relationship or not.
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basicallybasic Xper 5
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If you're definitely into him, than I'd say handjob on the first date and blowjob on the second
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- FairyRed
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  Thank you sweetie! And I like your glasses!
- FairyRed
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  by the way is this the way you go about it in your own sex life? :) Haha don't you sometimes feel embarrassed by having to ask him what he likes done down there, the first time you do it for him? Lol
- basicallybasic
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  Yeah that's what I usually do, and I don't think I've ever asked what he likes before doing that lol and I've never gotten any complaints so...
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- FairyRed
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  Okay thanks :) I usually ask the guy if he likes what I'm doing while I pop him out of my mouth for a little breathing break haha
- Daniela1982
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  How in the world do you know what kind of person he is on a first date? People are usually on their best behavior on a first date and let's be honest, most are hoping for sex on the first date. After they get that they relax a bit and show their real self. You don't realize what kind of dick they really are until a little bit more down the line. Wouldn't you fell like a chump if you gave a blow job to some douchebag?

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shyonehere Xper 3
10 mo
if you like the boy enough to date him why are people worried to get him off? If it's a blind date I probably would wait to see if i like him at all. Of course if he is forward and takes control (which I love) then I'd let him do anything he wants to show me lol... but I just love men who know what they want and take action.
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LeahBaby Xper 5
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I fuck most guys on the first date...
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Onepiece_fan2000 Xper 7
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I would say 2 or 3 dates
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tiffster Xper 3
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Usually 2 or 3 dates
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- FairyRed
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  Same. On the second date mostly though now.
- tiffster
  +1 y
  Yeah sometimes, me too. Twice on 1st date lol
WhiteShoulder Guru
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Three
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- FairyRed
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  For the blowjob or the handjob? :)
- WhiteShoulder
  +1 y
  Handjob
- FairyRed
  +1 y
  So is it first date, kissing, second date letting him feel your boobs up and the third to jerk him? Lol
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- WhiteShoulder
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  Exactly!!! And he gets to play with me too.
- FairyRed
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  So when do you usually start using your mouth on him? :)
- WhiteShoulder
  +1 y
  Fourth date. And vice versa.
- FairyRed
  +1 y
  Okay. Same. I sort of let him know at the end of the third date that he can expect getting his cock wet in my mouth in the next date :) do you do that? Lol
- WhiteShoulder
  +1 y
  Maybe...
Firehead_gymnast Xper 1
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It varies but usually like 7-8 months
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Aqua_Chik Xper 1
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2-3 months maybe depends on how we doing
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swettannie Guru
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depends of you. if you want to wait 20 dates, do it. if you wwant to do it at the first date, do it
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Anonymous
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1 😄
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- FairyRed
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  For both hand and blowjob? Haha
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Both
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  I only date w someone i like so there is no reason to do it later