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  • Three or more, maybe as much as six before any sexual things happen other than kissing. I don't like to jump right into sex of any kind too soon because I'm only looking for long term not a booty call. But once we have crossed the threshold then I'm all for going down on the woman pretty much for as long as she'd like. Meal and bathroom breaks not withstanding I could go hours and hours with my mouth occupied as long as she shows she's enjoying herself. I take the phrase "don't stop!" very seriously

    • Yes please!!

    • @Jelley007 Alas if only I was 30 years younger.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Personally, I've never been fond of being "sucked". On the other hand, I like to get between a girls legs ASAP. As a (very) young man, a (much) older woman gave me specific instructions and directions on what to do "down there". Those same instructions have never failed me in my goal to get something other than my tongue in that region.

Most Helpful Girls

  • If its someone i'm trying to date and have a genuine relationship with, probably a couple weeks after becoming exclusive. If I'm just horny and looking for a fling though probably the second date and if there is no date whenever it feels like the right time.

  • Ummm, zero dates? Oral sex happened about an hour after I met my husband. We went on a date 2 days later. 🤷🏻‍♀️ He went down on me first.

    • Nice

    • @nomantwo thanks lol

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  • 1st date wouldn't be out of bounds... sometimes it's just the thing to do if your wearing the right mini dress.

  • I dont count dates. I count months. We have to had been dating in person at least 3 months before

    • Better than m ex waiting 9 months lol

  • On this site who knows?

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  • I don't have a set number. It happens when it happens.
    It happens when it feels natural and wants to do it.

  • I never had a limit, it was more like when it happened it happened.

  • Whenever we feel comfortable enough to do that.

    I love giving oral, but there's no set number of dates before it will happen. After we get to know each other, and when we're ready. 🤷‍♂️

  • Depend on how quickly I (we) fell in love.

  • I don’t have a specific or even general number in mind. It happens when we feel like it should happen.

  • Depends on the person, how long I've known them, how well we've connected, how attractive I find him, etc. Not so much as the number date it is. I've given head on the first date before 🤭🤭

  • First date I get oral. Lmao. Give, probably never. Lmao.

    • It's give and take. Not only one of them.

    • @pikachu337 You’re saying you wouldn’t give her oral if she let you?

    • @Jack9949 I am saying that I like how she says it. And yes, I don’t like oral is actually. I mean isn't a little gross to kiss your partner after she gives you a blowjob?

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  • Depends on when the priest decides to slide open the confessional glory hole.

  • Ultimately, you decide.
    There's no rule. Just expect the dude to want more once you sucked him off.

  • I don't have a set number of dates in mind, whatever feels right.

  • Probably 2

  • Umm none because I don’t go on “dates.” I have been in a relationship since I was 15. If I were single all those years I would still not go on a date. I’m not worried about that stuff. If I were 30 and single I would tell my family to find me someone suitable to marry and have kids with. It’s a perk of coming from a slightly Orthadox culture that you’ll likely never die alone or without children because family is there to help.

  • As many as it takes.. Even if we wait til marriage.. 😌😅

  • I have given and received oral sex on a first date several times.

  • I have given it as a part of making out on the second date. No girl should blow a guy until he has eaten her first.

    • Except for the open shirt, lifted skirt and slid aside center panel, she was fully dressed.

    • "Except for the open shirt, lifted skirt and slid aside center panel, she was fully dressed.". LMFAO.

  • Many, many dates. I'd need to be certain I was wanting to marry her before either of us got even partly naked

  • Not until we are married.

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