How many dates does it usually take before you have sex with the person?

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  • Really it depends for me...
    But actually, sex is not at all big deal. Why wait?
    If there is desire, and if made safely (condom, contraception, blood test, etc ), then why wait?
    Do you wait before going to the restaurant?

    I think sex is not sacred in the good way. It should be really important to make it properly, with respect, but not important to calculate the "proper" time.

    To me the proper time is when both partners desire it.

    • Thanks for the MHO!

  • I've had sex before and actual date. Like at summer camps and all I would meet people and we would hook up asap and I've gone through months in a relationship and not had sex. It depends on my SO limits and what they're comfortable with and my limits and what I'm comfortable with.

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  • I’m not gonna let a stranger inside of me. Would you let a stranger reside inside your house? Probably not. I mean, it’s not wise. I’ll havevsex with him when I feel like I know him. It doesn’t depend on dates. For example; if we’ve been friends for years and I like him, I’ll sleep with him without ever going on a date.

    • The men in these comments are slutty b*tches. But then again, most men are.

  • Wow 😮 really!! For me I have to date and be with more than 4 months

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  • It's not about time or number of dates. It's about when the emotional connection is strong enough that both are ready.

  • That really depends on my date.

  • I'm more likely to wait out more dates on a girl I really like. If I am not "falling in love" I am more likely to shift gears into one night stand or friends with benefits on the 1st or 2nd date.

  • Usually one or not many more, if they don't have sex after a couple dates I'll usually take that as they're not interested so I can move on.

  • Shouldn't be more than 1 to me

  • For me Marriage.

  • If the b! tch ain't putting out on the first night, I'm not wasting my time.

  • There is never a number. If you both click sexually, intellectually, and morally, it can happen in the first week.

  • I honestly wouldn't know farthest i was able to get was feeling someone up

  • I don't have a set number of dates. I have a time period after we're monogamous, if not exclusive. My minimum is 3 months for girls who are not virgins. If a girl is a virgin the minimum is 6 months. My maximum limit is 2 years, if you won't have sex within 2 years I will not be dating you. I have a limit of a year before we do anal, and the maximum is at least once before marriage.

  • Sometimes is two hours in and sometimes it's 2 months in

  • It depends on the connections and chemistry between the two people

  • Usually takes 3 dates.

  • I think 3 dates is ok. By that time you will know if it's right or not

  • 1 Max 2

  • Depends. Sometimes it's been 1. But for me it's usually been after 2 or 3

  • Immediately have sex. Before the first date. That way, the awkwardness and wonder if it's going to happen is out the way

  • Non i always fuck the girl in the first date