How many girlfriends or wives get a spanking from their husbands/boyfrIends for being stubborn or purposely pissing them off?

Do other relationships have it where a partoner has had enough of bratty stubborn behavior or testing and puts their foot down and gives their partner a spanking. I know there are times when I purposely egg him on to prove a point but spanking seems unfair and makes me want to be defiant and be a major pain in the ass. Technically, it makes my behavior worse
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I didn't realize it's as common as that... sigh. He better watch out I guess
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  • I spank my girlfriend for being moody/bitchy.
    If she is genuinely angry or upset about a particular event then that is ok, thats just being human. But if she is being moody, bratty or confrontational for no apparent reason then she will get a spanking.
    But I would like to make 2 points.
    1: The act of spanking needs to ultimately be consensual. I choose when and how but she had to agree in principle to being spanked. If you don't have that then it is just abuse.
    2. Never administer a spanking in the heat of the moment or if you are in an active argument. Let things cool down, have a calm and clear head and administer the spanking in a way that is completely proportional to the situation.

    • So, you say you spank your girlfriend when she's acting a certain way... what if she says no way... bc In the heat of the moment, I do things because I'm mad, like hide his stuff or pinch him or, yes slapped his face but no way am I going to agree for him to spank me... and he is... so how is that fair, if I don't consent... and maybe he deserves to have his stuff hidden or to be pinched

  • Then he's not spanking you forcefully and frequently enough. Maybe he should try other types of sexual discipline. Has he ever used a cane?

    • Yikes! ! No he has and would never... and her better not spank me harder😯

    • And what do you think you could do if he did since you're being such a brat and deserve it? You know I'm right, you naughty girl, you!!

    • He wouldn't dare do that stuff to me. And I'm not very big but I would pinch him and slap his face if he ever messed with me.. in fact I have. We aren't in to canes and this isn't a sexualities thing. I admit I can't get away when he picks me up but I can and do retaliate I do feel it's unfair do to a size disadvantage I was trying to prove to him and myself that it's not that common for guys to do this...

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Not for something as trivial as being stubborn but I have been punished that way.

    • Quite a few if that's her thing

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  • I've heard of this but it's not something I am personally in to. If she wants to fight though then I'm all for that

  • If you act like a child you'll be treated like one. There are people who spank kids I'd just leave you in the mall and never go back. One day I'll be such a good father 🤔

    • You don’t hit women. If you do, they should divorce you and make sure you go to jail. There you can be beaten in just like you did her.

    • @Sweetheart666 yes!! Although, a spanking to me doesn't warrant divorce but I think there are other ways things should be handled

    • As I said I'd never hit a woman I'd just leave her in the mall and adios, hasta la vista

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  • Some like being spanked and use the "bad behavior" as a flirtation/foreplay. It's rather innocent

    • This is not the case here. It makes me so pissed off

    • If it isn't consensual that isn't ok.

    • Good. I agree. I guess he better stop or I'm going to hide his wallet

  • The what now?

  • Oh so you admit you act like a bitch purposely

    • Well yes... I guess we all have our days

  • I'm always being bratty, and I get spanked all the time. Sometimes my boyfriend's friends spank me, also.

    • Yeah!! My other boyfriends spanked me too , through the years when I was in a serious relationship with them. I'm confused why it happens... Def. Not something i like. It's like it is just a natural reaction for theme? ?