How many guys do you have to fuck to be a "slut"?

I'm 18 and have been called a slut, with how many do you have to sleep to be a slut?
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  • It depends on age.

    This is my slut/manwhore equation regarding "body count" - a very obnoxious and revolting phrase but, considering that the people who use it are typically manwhores and sluts anyway, what should I expect?

    I use a formula for both males and females:
    Let Y = cumulative number of distinct sexual intercourse partners
    (that is, the "body count")
    Let X = age-appropriate maximum number of distinct sexual intercourse partners

    X = ROUND_UP [ 1.5 * (AGE - 15) ]
    So:
    Age = 15, X = 0.
    Age = 16, X = 2.
    Age = 17, X = 3.
    Age = 18, X = 5.
    Age = 19, X = 6.
    Age = 20, X = 8.
    Age = 21, X = 9.
    Age = 22, X = 11.

    If Y > MINIMUM (X, 10), then "Slut/Manwhore" else "Age appropriate".

    Basically, what this is saying is:
    1. "Don't fuck until you are at least 16."
    2. "Only fuck in committed relationships; up to 3 committed relationships per every 2 years."
    3. "If you need more than 10 committed relationships by the time you are 22, then something is wrong with you or you're a slut/manwhore who is fucking too often just for fun."

    More than 10 guys is really too much.

    Most guys would be rather uncomfortable competing against such a lengthy history because the probability of his being the best you ever had (or having the biggest dick you've ever had) seriously goes down. He wants to be memorable and important to you and "not just another lay".

    Nor does he want a pussy with "a lot of miles on it" because, frankly, they are considerably looser so the experience isn't as good for him (although it is still mighty fine!).

    So, bottom line; more than 10 guys is too much for the majority of men.

    For the record, my Y ("body count") is 5 and it wasn't 2 until I was almost 26!

    Body 1: 21 y 09 m
    Body 2: 25 y 11 m
    Body 3: 26 y 02 m
    Body 4: 32 y 10 m
    Body 5: 36 y 10 m

  • in my opinion, it's not about numbers, it's about your motivation.

    If you have sex with a guy because you desire having sex with him, then in my opinion that's fine. If you have sex with a guy because you are trying to get his attention, or trying to get something from him (this includes a relationship, but also things like booze, drugs, clothes, jewelry, money, a ride, etc.), then that's slutty behavior. And if you let guys have sex with you when you don't really want to have sex with them - because you think that's your only value, or because you think it's expected of you, then that's slutty behavior. In other words, slutty behavior, to me, is about having sex in an unhealthy way (mentally/emotionally unhealthy).

    Having said that, if you're having sex with more than, say, 6 guys a year, then you're probably having unhealthy sex.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No option I agree on. in my opinion you can sleep with as many as you'd like. Others will always have opinions about it, especially if you're a girl. If you enjoy sex and have it often, you're a slut. If you haven't had sex or doesn't enjoy it/want to have it, you're a prude.
    In the end what matters is how you feel. If you want to sleep with many because it feels good, go for it! If not, then don't!

  • i personally would not want to be with more than 3-4 guys. i would prefer the number to be even less, but is it my fault if a guy decides he doesn't "love" me anymore after he gets what he wants? here, you're holding off until after 4 months, hoping you'd marry the guy, but then after 5 months he no longer "loves" you. i'm a virgin by the way.

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  • I define slut = whore = prostitute, a person who gives sex in exchange for material things, usually cash.

    So if you are being paid by even one person for sex then you're a slut.

    But you can be fucked by 100 guys and none paid you, you're just being promiscuous, not a slut.

    (With that many body count, you're probably slutty in behaviour though.)

  • My old Flatmate sleeps with 5 different guys in only 1 month n nobody call her slut. Ignore them n move on with your life if they're not important to you.

  • How many times does some newbie have to ask this question that has been asked by every new person since the beginning of time?

  • It depends, but anyways, don't worry about what anybody tells you. But my definition of a slut would be if you sleep every night or every other night with a different guy and if you are down to have sex even if a stranger asks you. It's not about the number. But I don't like the word slut, it's kind of bad to call someone a slut. I might say nympho.

    by the way, can you please follow me so that I can DM you? I have a few questions I want to ask you.

    • I've followed you

  • *Sigh* You're not a slut just because you've slept with many guys. Is there even such a thing as a slut? Let girls have some fun for fucks sake.

    Maybe you're a slut if you fuck your best friends boyfriend but that's about it.

  • It's not the number, it's how you go about getting to your number. If you throw yourself around like a tramp my guess is you would be classified as a slut even if your count was very low. On the other hand if you handle discretely those ONS fucks and sucks your count could be very high and nobody knows different.

  • How many guys have you been with @xLucy_X2 ?

  • I think it's the same amount of girls that a guy fucks

  • If a girl had sex with more than 1 guy, people might already start calling her slut.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MyGirlIsNotASlut

  • I prefer to use the word “promiscuous” instead of the words “whore,” “slut,” “hoe,” etc. I think a good ballpark number would be around 10+ partners for women. Now, I think an extensive sexual history is indicative of some possible character defects of the woman, perhaps even related to her childhood in a way. I think an extensive sexual history can be because of an absentee father, abusive father, sexually promiscuous mother influence, heavy alcoholic influence in the family, poor peers, etc. I personally don’t think it’s simply a love or liking for sex, although if I’m being fair I cannot rule out that possibility. Now, I personally dislike women of this description, partly because of my own insecurity I will admit and because lack of future loyalty, lack of ability to pair bond, lack of uniqueness of the relationship because you’re essentially another number, and more.

  • People will call you it no matter what.

  • I guess when you getting judged by people at school maybe 5 or more

  • It's not how many it's more to do with how and why

    You should edit your question and add an option for none of the above to see the real results

  • Depends who else knows about your fucking habits

  • Since you don't make them pay you ain't a slut 🤨

  • Number doesn't matter. I was labelled a slut while still a virgin and even more so after being raped. It comes from jealousy, fear, ignorance

  • It depends on age and situation. Having bad luck with bfs and marriages doesn't usually make you a slut (though it can be because you're a slut) but going around sleeping with guys makes you a slut even if it's just 3. Generally though, more than five at your age can usually point to being a slut. But it's just a label, your shame is what gives it power.

  • Number doesn't matter, it's how you got about it. If you're fucking for money, you're a slut, wether your body count is 1 or 1000.
    Otherwise I call it having fun.

  • There is no number to being a slut, it's a state of mind and behaviour. As a former manwhore I can say that if you are classy, then you can get away with a lot of sex without being called a slut. There are women who will find a single smoking hot lawyer in her 30s empowering as she is successful, well educated and promiscuous 🤷🏽‍♂️ relationships are not for everyone...

  • I don't think it has anything to do with a number. Women tend to have higher standards than men for both sex and dating. It's not just simply physical attraction, though in that, they have higher standards as well.
    So when a woman just doesn't have that, or does have it but throws it aside for sex, and does so repeatedly, she is considered a slut.

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