There is no one length of time sex "should" last. In fact, the word should have no place in the bedroom. Sex is a time to enjoy with yourself or your partner, and however long it lasts—that is how long it lasts. Forget the time limits.
Sex for a woman can last for as long as she wants, is able to, and feels ready for. Every person, every relationship, and every sexual encounter is different. The more in tune with your body and your sexuality you become, the less concerned you will be with how long you are taking, how many times (in a day or week) you are doing it and the more you will be able to enjoy the journey. Forget time to orgasm, if women (or men) do, times vary every single time, many women do not have orgasms during intercourse and many women have multiple orgasms.
For me, it usually takes about 10 to 15 minutes for first, and I frequently enjoy multiple. Our sexual activities other than just penetration are important for ultimate pleasure. There is nothing like average amount of time we "lasts" in bed. We last as long as we both want to continue. Our sex also does not always need to end in orgasm. It is definitely satisfying to reach orgasm during sex, but a complete sexual experience does not require orgasms, it is foolishness for most people to try to measure sexual experiences based on "finishing" with an orgasm. There is no set duration for how long sex should last to be satisfying to men or women.
Most clinical studies use the intravaginal ejaculation latency time - the moment the penis enters the vagina until the time a man ejaculates to define sex and measure duration. Survey or experiments in laboratory conditions never give real response and results are always misguiding. Never ever trust such surveys or so-called studies. Measuring sex based on how long intercourse lasts does not adequately take into account men‘s and women’s orgasms or pleasure.
We do a lot of assumption and shame around an imaginary standard, a lot of what popular media portrays is "hetero sex that ends when the man ejaculates, or it is this really hot, rip-girl’s clothes-off in-the-moment experience where they both orgasm at the same time. When we assume sex follows a predetermined pattern, we miss out on the possibilities sex holds, couples who include sexual activities other than P-in-V - cuddling, kissing, stroking, and oral sex find sexual experience lasts longer. Idea of an average time for sex to last continues to influence society consciously and subconsciously. When we expand the definition of sex, a whole realm of sexual experiences opens. How long a woman takes to reach orgasm relates to her capacity to relax and receive and her partner's capacity to bring attention and well-calibrated contact. Whatever a our experience is—more is always possible, and wherever we are, it is normal.0 1 0 0
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How many minutes does it take me to orgasm after a penis has entered me...
Wow lol that's like trying to solve the mystery of the Tootsie Pop 🤣How many licks does it take to get to the center Well I have to say you most certainly have me curious... How long does it take me to orgasm once sex begins 🤔
Well I can't give an answer at this moment in Minutes... (I'll have to experiment on it and get back to you 🤣)
But in general how fast a girl reaches an orgasm can depend on many things...
... What part of her cycle is she in?
Many women get hornier around ovulation and before their period...
These times it's quite easy to orgasm and can happen faster.
... How much foreplay can also determine the speediness of an orgasm. The more aroused the woman is before penetration the sooner she'll orgasm during penetration.
... Now how much time between orgasm... Again that's tough to say.
There's are time when it seems that 2nd orgasm may never happen then during my ovulation time FORGET IT my orgasm run into each other forget mins let say Seconds.
ANother factor is if I'm overly aroused due to foreplay I might not be able to go another round since it might actually tickle lol if I'm touched when I am beyond overly stimulated... I just end up yelping and giggling begging for mercy 🤭0 1 0 0The whole reason i asked these question to find out if i am normal and other insecure people to understand, and it might also reveal things we dont know or discover for happier relationships, Thank you
You're welcome 🙂
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I can take a long time and in a way that is not good. Sometimes the girl starts to hurt and I wish I could climax faster. So it is like I take too long in a way that is making the girl less satisfied, not more. I never had problems with ED but I have a problem with climaxing.
1 0 0 0I sometimes think the doctors chopped too many sensitive parts off my equipment during circumcision. I'm circumcised. But even the very first time I lost my virginity, it took a good twenty minutes or so and lots of concentration on my part to reach climax and long after the girl reached hers.
I can get very sensitive and climax in just like 10 minutes or less if I don't have sex or masturbate for like 3 days in a row. But if I am having sex or masturbating every day, I feel lucky if I can climax in under 30 mins with a woman.
I don't do death grip when I masturbate for those who might be wondering. I always busted out some sort of lube... if not moisturizer then I sometimes used hair conditioner. :-D
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