Guys, how many of you are masochist or submissive? How and at what age did you realize you were?

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  • I was abused a lot at an early age by several adults and included in that were some rather sadistic abuses. by 12 though I had become somewhat masochistic in my sexual desires. There was a girl I liked who was a year older than me who would indulge me by hitting me in the balls repeatedly which led to some rather intense orgasms. while I tend not to go in for the more extreme manifestations of sadomasochism I have been hooked since childhood. In part I believe it evolved as a coping mechanism. I also liked when she pinched and twisted my nipples hard or dug her nails into my genitals (but not scratched) and I also her whip me with a belt. Yes that was at age 12. I didn't even know this was a fetish until years later.

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  • It depends on what is happening and the vibe I have with the person I am with.
    Sometimes I am the Dom... sometimes I am the sub.
    I have fun in both roles. One needs a good open mind to enjoy both sides of that coin.

    • Thanks for the MHO :) Looking for a Dom mistress... or a sub... anyone?

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  • I think of myself as a switch. I suppose I came to that conclusion in my early twenties. Doesn't affect my everyday life very much outside of what kind of porn I watch.

  • Known all my life. There is a reason why i always liked been friends with a girl and letting her be the leader.

  • I love if some dominant women take charges of me., I am in spit humiliation , ball busting , femdom humiliation , this is so sendual i am 100% masochistic and 95% sadistic lol i love switch role , and feet humiliation is best thing a girl can do

  • I am submissive, found out when I was last dating so I would have been 16
    I can't do anything else because of my medical history

  • I am more submissive and kinda found that out about the first time I started first having sex. I also think cause I was having sex with older and dominant women made me submissive.

  • Can easily be, probably about 9 at primary school when I wet myself in class and got told off in front of the whole class by a sadistic female teacher, I got an erection lol,,,

  • Love a hot dom taking charge. I’ve always loved that! And I want her to have complete control during sex. 😏


    I’ve no problem being dim also but a girl domina is just wonderful

    • Great

    • You are a dom?

    • Indeed

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  • I figured many would be.
    I am 0% masochist, and girls keep getting surprised when I give them equal slap backs when they do something stupid, with 'don't you like that?' and me asking 'do you?'

    • I see men doing that kind of things more than women to be honest...

    • I am certain they do. Most expect women to be (severely) masochist. Girls get almost stoned when I treat them with care. Most get petrified th8nking I'd hurt them and I drop all contact there (you can't radically change people so there's no point)

    • Yes and many accommodate them. Sad...

  • not masochist but submissive, realized when I start to enjoy being dominated by a woman in bed

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  • I am masochist and submissive. I noticed it very early for the first time.

    • Do you remember how old you were?

    • 8 or 9

    • Really? What happened?

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