How many of you had sex with someone other than your love one?

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at your hen or stag party did you have sex with someone other than your intended,  I didn't,

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Given that I have had over the course of my life, 14 sexual partners, the odds were going to be that more than a few of those were about the sex and not love.

To start, I lost my virginity to my high school girlfriend when I was 16 and she was 15. I was sure that was love at the time but college and distance grew us apart.

More to the point in terms of the question, I have also had 5 one night stands and one, what would be called today - though I don't think the phrase had been coined at that point (I was in college) one "friends with benefits." That lasted about 8 months.

Of those one night stands, I was contacted about two years ago by a woman with whom I had a one night stand. We did not know each other well, frankly, but we had an amazing night and, it turns out, I got her pregnant,

The thing is that she decided not to tell me and raise the baby on her own. However, as he became a teenager she decided that her child needed to know his father. So she tracked me down two years ago and now I have a 14 year old son. (My other children are 10, 9 and 7.) I am very proud of him and although it was awkward to start, we have grown quite close.

Now I am getting to know his mom, but as a friend. It is not love.

In fact, I am currently in love with the mother of my three children. We have talked about marriage but somehow the idea of a big ceremony, an expensive ring and dress just seems to cheapen what we share. I love her and my children and the sex we have is amazing.

So I got off topic a bit, but there it is. Frankly, it is perfectly natural for a man to have sex absent "love." Nature made us with the instinct to implant our sperm in a female and make offspring that carry on our DNA. So we need it - not like our lives depended on it - but for emotional health and our sense of our own manhood. So other than one case where my girlfriend - whom at the time I did think that I loved - had an abortion without telling me, I have no regrets. Right now, with my girlfriend and our three children and my son, I have never been happier and cannot imagine my life without them.

exitseven · Accepted Answer

I met somebody at a party. We just hung out a little and when the party started to wind down she invited me back to her dorm room. I never had sex with anyone before but I had a girlfriend at the time. After we sat on her bed and looked out at the night sky for a while she asked me if I wanted to have sex with her. I agreed to it. It was not great and I never saw her again.

Gwenhwyfar · Accepted Answer

I have never done that. I did mess around with a male stripper at someone else’s hen party but we didn’t go all the way and I was single at the time.

RobT312 · Answer

Yeah in a threesome with my girlfriend I had sex with the “third” . That was about fun sex, not love

EmmaMary · Answer

No, absolutely not.

DonkeyDan · Answer

I've had sex with plenty of people I wasn't in love with, but none of these people were ever while I was in love with someone, I don't do cheating.

20yearsolder · Answer

I didn't had a bachelor party, I have since

AviatorTom · Answer

At my bachelor party, we went to a strip club and had fun... no sex. I did get excited though and had to rub one off when I got home before I could sleep.

When I was single, I had sex several times with women I wasn't in love with.

RebeccaBI2000 · Answer

I have never cheated

Kelly6 · Answer

I still do

CuriousGuy08 · Answer

When i wasn't with a girl. Yes.

Rohaan2020 · Answer

Hv had with many

krin_m · Answer

In my college days a lot. Not any more!

Anonymous · Answer

I never have but my wife she sometimes does

Anonymous · Answer

Yep I've chested a few times

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