How many of you wish you could be free of your sexual urges?

Charliefretz329 Yoda

I wish I was free of my sexual urges 😞

Vote A

I am content with my sexual urges 😊

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PrettyPriya Master
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I’m content. I’m currently crushing/dating someone, so urges have increased, but it is not like I don’t have self control. ❤️
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- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  I’m happy for you 😊!
- PrettyPriya
  +1 y
  @charliefretz329 aww, thanks. I’m pretty excited myself!
- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  That’s amazing! 😊 I hope things work out 😃
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- PrettyPriya
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  Thank you again for mhg!!! 😘🥰❤️

Most Helpful Guys

moviedude714 Master
+1 y
Yeah I feel that way at times because I feel I didn't grow up having a normal youth or a normal sex life
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- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  I understand that. Trauma can leave many lingering painful effects
- moviedude714
  +1 y
  Absolutely, I feel I didn't have enough sex in my 20s, feel that will haunt me mentally and emotionally for the rest of my life
- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  Nothing can be done about the past. Focus on what can be done now
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- moviedude714
  +1 y
  Duh I know that, easier said than done though, sometimes I feel life is not worth living if you didn't experience certain things in your life earlier
- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  I know and understand 100% 😂 trust me 😩
- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  But while you may have lost your chance with yesterday, you haven’t lost your chance with today. You are currently in complete control of now
- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  Don’t wait till later in life to resent passing up what you can do today
- moviedude714
  +1 y
  I just feel I missed out on the best years for sex
- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  You are 33? You haven’t missed out. Yet...
- moviedude714
  +1 y
  That feels kind of old though in terms of becoming more sexually active
- moviedude714
  +1 y
  I sometimes do feel suicidal because I feel growing up not having had a normal youth is a life not worth living
- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  What would suicide accomplish other than ruining your chances to be a hot older man to 20 yr old girls? They like older guys more anyway!
- moviedude714
  +1 y
  Are you saying that you've dated women over a decade younger than you?
- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  Fucked them yes
- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  And yes dated them absolutely
- moviedude714
  +1 y
  So do you feel that you're dating life was better in your 30s compared to your 20s?
- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  Absolutely, I knew what I wanted and was confident. I have much more to offer
- moviedude714
  +1 y
  Well I assume you had a decent sex life in your 20s
- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  I’m a sex addict. For me it’s like an alcoholic defining his best drinking years. But sex is better now than it used to be. Most definitely it gets better
- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  If that makes any sense... it’s still an issue
- onahole-san
  +1 y
  Okay boys, here is my take; Moviedude: So do you feel that you're dating life was better in your 30s compared to your 20s? Charliefretz: Absolutely, I knew what I wanted and was confident. I have much more to offer. The thirties are a prime time for men. By this point most people have an okay career, and understand what they want, and have matured. 27-31 has been a crazy maturation period for me. I make well over 60k/yr now. I'm way more valuable as a partner now than when I was 22 and struggling to figure life out. Try to think about relationships as "how beneficial is this person to me, or I am to them?" I know it's massively cliche to say, but you figure these things out as you GROW! You are gonna fuck everything up in your 20's, I think that's just what everyone does. Just grow together.
- Charliefretz329
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  @onahole-San well spoken and true words
onahole-san Xper 3
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I am content with my sexual urges, because I have toys and friends to fulfill them with.
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- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  That’s awesome!
- onahole-san
  +1 y
  Are you asking this question because you yourself are uncomfortable with your urges?
- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  I absolutely am
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- onahole-san
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  What makes you uncomfortable about being attracted to men or women? Do you feel it perhaps causes you to mis-step socially? I. E. you make a pass at a cute co-worker and regret it? Are you afraid of rejection?
- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  I am a sex addict. I do not wish to ruin relationships or my career due to my failure to control my urges. It is a concern for me and I struggle with it.
- onahole-san
  +1 y
  Thank you for being open and honest about it. I hope you find solutions to your struggles. Have you tried using toys to curb those desires and help control those urges?
- Charliefretz329
  +1 y
  I have exhausted all masturbation ideas that I know. They do not provide relief for more than perhaps an hour. Often less. I wish to stop masturbation as well