How many of you would actually want a MMF threesome?

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redeyemindtricks · Accepted Answer

So, here's some perspective on this from girl-land.
With 1-on-1 sex -- even if it only lasts for a night -- there's still SOME kind of connection that happens, there. Transient connection, sure, if nothing deeper is present -- and that sort of thing's fine, for SOME people.
But, still... there's a connection. Still SOME kind of "relationship", even if it only lasts a few hours. (This is why we don't get all wet from just *seeing* hot boys, no matter how perfect they are—there needs to be a backstory.)

Now, see, what's interesting about situations like MFM, is that they cross this line.
They cross into the realm of REALLY being "just sex" -- in the way boys stereotypically think of.
Dissociated. No "relationship".
Fundamentally different from anything that could happen in a 1-1 encounter.
(Drunk sex might be different. I've never been drunk or anywhere close, so I can't say.)

THAT is what you've gotta think about. You need to think about how this is going to affect you, and yr relationship (if you have one).

I remember the first time I did MFM.
I was with this boy, and his roommate walked in on us... right behind me, while I was pretty much in classic spit-roast position. Well, yeah, I just kinda arched my back a little bit, and gave roommate the green-light gesture. Fuck it, let's do this...
I mean, I could actually FEEL the line being crossed, at that point.
The whole "backstory" thing just disappeared, and was replaced by raw, emotionally dissociated sex, with absolutely no emotional strings of any kind at all.

I mean, I don't think that could even be a thing, in a 1-1 situation. Don't even think it would be possible.

That sort of thing would leave a LOT of girls feeling used and worthless. A lot of girls wouldn't be ready for that.
*I* had fun... but I'm also deep into the tail of the bell curve when it comes to uninhibited, IDGAF sexual aggression.

So, you'd have to think about how that would feel. That could be absolutely anywhere from exhilarating to soul-shattering. Depending on you, and the girl (s).

AND, you'd have to think about how it would affect yr relationship with yr girlfriend (if the "F" here is going to be a girlfriend). Would yr emotional bond survive completely non-emotional sex?
I don't know.
You probably don't, either.

If it DOES work out -- and if the rhythm is right, and if the boys aren't afraid of cooties -- it's AWESOME.
Four hands on my waist, getting slammed from both sides mmmmhhhh omg #fuckyeah

High risk high return.