How many of you would be attracted to this?

So I'm a woman but since I was like 15 I've always found feminine, gay, and androgynous men attractive. It took me some time to figure it out but within the past 2 years I have!
What I realized about me is that I'm very much attracted to manly men, but I find the dynamics of a gay relationship so sexually stimulating.
I don't like being in a relationship with a man as a woman, I would rather be in a relationship with a man as a feminine and androgynous man.
I like my soft curvy body, but I don't like the breasts. I like looking androgynous but leaning towards feminine.
I don't know if I said all of this clearly but what are your thoughts?
Maybe I like men so much that I literally want to be one myself 😂

So I've been struggling to find someone that resembles what I'm talking about, so I made my own! I would love to look like this
How many of you would be attracted to this?
I get this is not for everybody, and I respect that, just don't be rude.
#sex
I'm a straight man and that turns me on
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I'm a straight man and I'm not into that
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  • This is such a complex question. I've been staring at the screen for an hour trying to sort out my thoughts. Would you clarify, what you meant when you said "I would rather be in a relationship with a man as a feminine and androgynous man." Is it purely a statement about your physical appearance? Is there a psychological element? Maybe you're mentally at the borderline between feminine and masculine. (I'm hypothesizing, not trying to put words into your mouth.) I would be comfortable dressing more androgynously. It's interesting that as a society, we're completely comfortable with women in men's attire, but not the opposite.

    In general, I find your questions thought provoking. So that's attractive. I'm also attracted to the pictures of yourself you've posted. And, I like the androgynous character you've created.

    Too much to sort out... Please elaborate on the question, above.

    • Firstly, thank you for being so interested! I find it very hard to put into words how I'm feeling, but I'll try my best. The thought of being a man in a relationship with a man is much more appealing to me than the thought of being a woman in a relationship with a man. But I'm extremely particular about what this "man" would look like. I don't want to look like just any man. A soft, very feminine leaning man is what I'd love to look like. Not transgender, but like the image pictured above.

    • Isn't gender more than the body parts you or I have. For example, women have different mental processes than men. No value judgment, we're just different. That difference is important. I wouldn't want to date a woman who interacted with the world the same way men do. The imagery you shared is an androgynous looking person. What is their personality like? Similarly, ambiguous? Masculine or feminine? If you'd prefer, DM me. I'd like to continue the conversation.

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  • I think at your age it probably isn't uncommon to explore different scenarios like that.
    It could be a phase or something deeper, but time will tell.
    I only say that because I remember loving women so much at your age that I had thoughts about how cool it would be if I were a hot lesbian woman. I wanted to be in a sexual relationship with another woman. It was just a fantasy and obviously I moved on from that when I met a woman that I was really into. Then suddenly I was happy to have a penis again. LoL!
    Since then I've gone through many different kinks and phases. I'm still exploring different things and figuring myself out even at my age.

    • I suppose. It's going on 5 years now though that I felt like this. I've been in a relationship with a man for a year now, and I still get uncomfortable sometimes during sex when my breasts are touched bc of that reason

    • Wow, that is different. I guess for me I was so obsessed with women to the point where I almost wanted a woman to worship my body as if I was like a woman. It's hard to explain, but I basically had no interest in being the stereotypical manly man. I did kind of dig the androgynous thing and wanted to be a pretty boy kinda. I wanted to be cuter than my girlfriends. LoL! I guess for you there's still some exploring to do maybe you have some other psychological reasin to reject your breasts? I don't know you well enough. Anyway, I hope you find love and happiness, whatever that means for you.

    • I agree with most everything you said!! And about the breasts, maybe another reason is bc I was molested by my grandfather

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  • I am literally soooo happy you got deactivated for cyberbullying my account. Bullying is not okay.

    Then you call a girl in the comments a "bitch" in your update just because she called you out on being argumentative for no real reason.

    Wow!

    • Awe thanks for most helpful girl!

  • Hmmm…I guess try mixing male and female styles.
    I am seeing some styles on Google, but I am not sure if you will like them. 😂

    • Thank you for your positivity, I'm expecting a lot of rude comments from the men on here 😂

    • 🤣🤣🤣

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  • I see...

    • What does that mean? 😂 I assume you wouldn't be requesting a follow if it was something negative

    • I've had my fun between a guy and a girl.. wo an I to judge

    • Okay, I'm accepting that follow request 😂

  • I’m into more feminine myself but you should do what makes you happy. What I or others think doesn’t matter. Well more so others obviously as I am very important lol

  • The concept of your identity influencing your style isn’t new, and I’m not even sure there’s a term for this, but I think why live in a box. Be yourself. It seems like you’re still exploring and discovering this about yourself. Have fun with it, and all the best on this exciting journey

  • I think I'd like him a lot😛

    • That's the spirit

    • Don't forget to vote in the polls!

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  • I'm bisexual so maybe you're like that too.

  • I think there is a word for this "Autoandrophilia" I remember seeing a youtube video of a women who had detransitioned talking about it

    • Yes that sounds exactly right!! Although I don't want to be a manly male