How many people have you had sex with? And do you think men have more sexual partners or women have more sexual partners?

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How many people have you had sex with? And do you think men have more sexual partners or women have more sexual partners?
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Try to be as accurate as possible. Best estimate.
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Here's a statistic I found for women to men ratio in the United States (97 men per 100 women) so aren't they're more women for men?
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  • I think I've had about 10 in total. One was my high school boyfriend. I had two other guys I dated in college. Then there was my ex-husband. After my ex husband I had 3 guys I just hooked up with, I had two other BFs after that. Then there's my fiance I have right now.
    They've all been men.
    I think men usually have more sexual partners

  • Ten but I tell every guy he’s my 6th or 7th

    • My 2017 to 2019 partner had 300 plus, he’s 33 now and is very handsome and rich. My last partner had 20 and he was 24. Men have more partners you should meet my friends

    • Lol thanks for the honesty 300 is excessive lol

    • We live in the Caribbean it’s common here for good looking men. Young as well as old wants a piece

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  • I have had somewhere between 75 and 100 male partners... with a few FFM threesomes, so maybe 5 women. I don't know if men or women have a higher count... I think that in on an individual level.

    @emerald_17 - I don't see you number here.

    • I posted on another comment. My number is 15

    • @emerald_17 - Sorry I didn't see it... thanks for following up:)

    • Yeah. I had a free cases where like they had it out ready maybe even touching or about to go in. And I flipped out and backed out. Lol so I guess if u want to count those. Like 20

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  • 25 I had. Most of them came from my wild college life.
    I still think men have more.

  • I don't know a real number but it's over 30 guys and exactly 3 girls. My guess would be that guys have the higher numbers in general

  • I had 2, one was a short-lived casual and the other an actual relationship.
    As far as I know, men tend to have more partners, whereas women are more... Picky? Like, it looks they aren't that interested and just choose a partner with certain traits they like. (Plead, don't take offense)

  • I’m 26 and 12 guys.

  • I’ve had 9 partners and every guy I’ve been with has had significantly more partners than I have.

  • Team VIRGIN

    • Why?

  • I’ve been with three people. I know girls in there 40s and guys in their 40s sure the body count can go either way 🤷‍♀️

  • Zero. Women have more sexual partners

  • 11 guys and 4 girls

    • who was the most fun?

    • @QuietRunner My college boyfriend was the most adventurous and fun sexually

    • nice nice

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  • Zero. I don't the number of people one has slept with has anything to do with their gender.

  • 11 friends with benefits and 1 relationship = 12 females as for now.

  • I think men on average have more sexual partners.

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  • There are more women than men, but that's primarily because women live longer than men. There are vastly more elderly women than men. There are actually more men born than women. On the other hand, there's some tendency for men to date down in age so if you have a growing population, the female cohort a male cohort is facing may be close in size.

    In general as a group men have had more partners, because gay men have more partners than hetero couples or lesbian women. But if you look at straight couples, the averages are very very close, as I think you've deduced: every time a man has a new female partner, a woman has a new male partner.

    That said there's good reason to think the 'median' or typical woman has slightly more partners than the typical male. The reason for that is we know there's a small subset of men who are VERY promiscuous and have a massive number of partners. There are some women with a lot of partners, but they don't seem to get as high as the male 'players'. Since there's a group of men with an extremely high number of partners, that must be offset by other men having less partners than the average woman.

    • And how many partners have you had?

  • I had 19 sex partners and think that men have more than women.

  • None, probably men

  • Women have more sexual partners for sure even the ugliest girl in the world can find someone to fuck and do. For pretty girls it’s a power trip I imagine that’s why I think a lot of girls get they’re self esteem Six inches at a time these days. Tsk tsk. But it’s really guys fault for being so fucking pathetic and putting up with shit you wouldn’t take from anyone or anything else or believing the shot that comes out of thier mouths. Act like a whore, pretend to be a lady demand chivalry and even though it’s perfectly obvious you don’t deserve it idiots will push each other out of the way and fight over who gets to stand up for the “damsel in distress” jackasses men are solely responsible for the degenerate hoes that litter the streets today it’s an epidemic.

    • If she's fucking someone aren't they fucking her too?

    • Guys LOVE a damsel in distress 🤦‍♀️😂

    • Your not my girl I don’t mind if you put out hell I hope you do. But do you possess that special something I’m looking for at the moment? Are you comfortable and confident enough in your self that u would go and do something unheard of? Something only a sexually majestic creature would do? Will you mail me your dirty panties for a hundred bucks western union?

  • I have had sex with 5 women. Its 4 too many.
    I think women have more sexual partners, at least here in New York. I recently met a girl who asked me what my body count was, and she called me a liar when I said 5. and then she wouldn't reveal her number because she said "You wouldn't see me the same" She was right, after that statement I knew her number was much higher.
    I dont judge people on their past when they are honest about it, and no longer feel shame because they have repented for it. If they feel shame, it means they know it was wrong and want to continue that behavior

  • I've slept with 8. I don't think the gender matters, but I think it's easier for most women to be selective.

  • I've had a lot, actually. I believe over 40 sexual partners.

    and yes, men do actually have more partners than women overall. Women do prefer commitment and long-term relationships over casual sexual encounters

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