How many sexual partners have you had?

I'm now 19 and I had over 20 different sexual partners in my life. I don't know if that makes me a "slut" and I'm kinda afraid of being judged. How many have you people had and am I still normal or is it over the top?
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  • I’ve had 4

  • As long as your consenting and being safe do you boo.

    • I always stay safe, that's important to me

  • Im 21 and I've had 5. Sounds like you just like sex to me lol. More power to you sister :)

  • I've had none so far.

  • I wish I knew you when I was 19!

  • The number doesn't make anyone a slut. It's your attitude about it.
    You could be a slut with 1, and completely not a slut at 100.

    A partner with some sexual experiences under her belt (quite literally) is just good in my opinion. It means she knows herself and how to turn others on hopefully.

    As long as she stays with me now I don't care what the number before me was.

  • I'm 21 and 2 but in reality they were both in the same year 5 years ago

  • That's pretty slutty. Not shaming you, but you do fit the criteria of what most would consider slutty.

  • Lol you still even ask if you are a slut... Do you think only 1000+ partners make a woman a slut?

  • I've had 0. Virgin gang.
    As for you, that is on the high end from what I have heard, but it isn't too crazy.

  • Never let judgement of others get to you! You are very much normal and there is nothing shameful about your preference. I had 9 partners in total with 7 in India and 2 in the United States. I had my first kiss when I was only 12 in Italy. Not ashamed of how I lived my life and neither should you :)

  • You're making your own decisions, own them. Shouldn't worry about what others think or say, especially if you're not involved with them. Meanwhile be smart and stay safe.

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  • Come and put another notch in your pistol with me

  • At 19, yeah that's slutty.

    Something like 10 or 12 for me.

  • 24 and I've had 7 throughout that time since I was 13 2 just oral but I dont think it counts

  • I’ve had sex with 34 girls

  • Don't worry about it. Hell im not sure how many I've had. Stopped counting after 48. But I was 18. I went to prison and no longer had the need to count afterwards... Maybe 80-100? More? Don't matter to me. Shouldn't matter to u. All that matters is the pounds on the sale, the kids on the hip, and cleanliness of the funzone...

  • Dont be afraid of being judged. You're s beautiful, openly expressive young woman. Haters gonna hate girl

  • 23 and I

  • you're not a slut. you're a princess don't worry.

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