How many sexual partners have you had and what’s your age group?

i read some statistics that surprised me
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  • I’m 37 and am at 10. It’s a pretty modest number because I was always a relationship guy and didn’t like hookups because I had trouble differentiating between sexual needs and romantic feelings. I‘ve also always had a strong libido that wouldn’t match up with a lot of my gfs and it strained the relationships and would end them early on. In the Past years I’ve been more open to exploring my sexuality more and am even considering trying open relationships. I think If we can stay emotionally connected I can keep from getting jealous, the only time I’ve ever gotten jealous in the past is when the girl becomes distant and it seemed as though I was being replaced. Also the thought of having sex with a variety of Women and not having to choose one excites me and opens the doors to a lot of unexplored fantasies.

    • Do you really think that 10 is a modest number? Does that include males and females or just guys?

    • Well yea it’s a modest number because I’ve been out of highschool for almost 20 years, 1 every two years on average. My friend from high school who’s stayed single all along too has had way more. I’ve only ever had sex with girls

  • I am 19 years old, and a virgin.

    Also, the statistics you saw likely used averages, which is a flawed way of presenting data, particularly on this subject of all subjects. The nature of sex is that almost all of it is being had by a very small percentage of the population. In any given age group, most people have 0-2 sexual partners, while a small number of people have insanely high numbers of sexual partners, which raises the average for the whole age group. The average between a person with 0 sexual partners and a person with 30 sexual partners is 15 sexual partners. So you can see why when looking at averages, it would give the impression that everyone has 15 sexual partners, when in reality nobody has that number and instead everyone either has much more or much fewer.

    • 0-2? Really? Wow. What do you consider high?

    • And is it different for girls and guys?

    • What do I personally consider high? I would say anymore than 3, because at that point, it would suggest that the person isn't just having unsuccessful LTRs, but is having sex outside of LTRs. Is it different for girls and guys? Not much different. However, there is some data that might suggest there is a lower standard deviation among girls, meaning the total number of sexual partners is spread out more equally. For instance, say there is a group of 5 guys and a group of 5 girls, and the average for both is 8 sexual partners. In the group of guys, it's likely that 1 guy has 40 sexual partners, while the other 4 guys have 0. In the group of girls, it's probably more like 1 girl has 36, while the other 4 girls have 1. Another way of saying it is that the mode amount of sexual partners is slightly higher for girls than guys. Not much higher (because they are subject to the same tendency), but higher.

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  • I’ve had four sexual partners (my husband is my fourth) and I’m now 33.

    • Thank you

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  • I've had one

  • I've had 5 partners. Just turned 25.

  • I have only slept with 26 women most were long term relationships and or multiple times. Throughout this time I have slept with one woman 11 years younger than I and one 12 years older. Most have been around same age or 3 year difference.

  • 12 sexual partners over a 6 year span from age 20 to 26. I'm 27 now, and 28 in 4 months

  • This chick tried taking advantage of me when I was 17 only kissed. She was a total creep.. What can I say.. I must have been a attractive kid.. Looks the other way..

  • I'm 32. I've had sex with 17 different females. I lost my virginity at 12 years old. I know I'm on the very low end of sex partners.

    • Average is 7. 17 is definitely not on the low end.

    • @joe_schmidt i don’t think that’s very low, i’m pretty sure it’s above average.

  • Half a dozen

  • Three. Two longterm, one ONS.

  • Just 1 and it was a mistake I'm 27

  • 20.. and none. Which is fine by me

  • 6 and I'm 29

  • Zero

  • Five, Twenty years old

  • Two partners

  • Just one. I’m 37.

  • I had 3 partners and around same age as mine

  • What statistics?

  • 8, I'm 29

  • One sexual partner
    I am 33

  • 257. I'm 33. Lost it at 13. Judge as you will, no shame here.

    • 🧢🧢🧢🧢

    • @mlgjamz Jesus, massive typo lmao. 27*

    • Oh haha, I thought you were that guy 😂

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