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  • This is an interesting question.

    For the most part, we don't care regarding sex ALTHOUGH sexual chemistry may be impacted if there is a major difference in fantasies, fetishes, or kinks. For instance, if a guy has submissive fantasies and is a submissive lover and the woman has rape fantasies and wants to be dominated, then these two may not have sex after a few times because one or both of them know the other one "just isn't doing it for me".

    However, for a relationship, personality is much more important.

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  • Unless you are just hate-fucking her, her personality is going to be important, even if it's just a casual sex relationship/friends with benefits. Personality plays a big role in sex, at least to me. Much of my enjoyment from sex is HER enjoyment of sex, so if she's bored or indifferent, that would make the sex lousy for me too.

Most Helpful Girl

  • nope not at all, it's just sex and nothing else

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  • I care about it quite a bit because if I'm going to have sex with somebody it's because I like them I like the person on the inside or confidence her smarts or character I like everything about her on the inside the outside is just an extra bonus but when I make love I use my energy my passion my desire My want I make it all about that girl and I have to feel her as I'm doing it because I want her to have the best orgasms ever so I have to really like to grow and she has to be cool on the inside

  • Yes it matters. A connection with a personality you like always makes sex better

  • I care mostly about if she a ho or no, it tell me all I need to know about her personality.

  • I only care about exploitative or devious personalities. If she's just a bit mean or distant, I don't really mind. If she's the type of person to tell everyone I forced her afterwards or try and make me feel guilty about it, I'd rather just watch porn at home

  • Makes a difference

  • If just fucking then I don't care

  • I have to at least like her. For me, no sex without a degree of fondness.

  • I care a huge amount. The way someone has sex says a lot about who they are as a person.

  • To me, personality is part of the sexual attraction. If she's a total bitch, why would I want to have sex with her? Maybe it would be really rough/revenge sex. Lol.

  • When I was younger I only cared that she was willing, unrelated, and an adult. Now I won't touch her unless I adore her.

  • Well for me everyone's personality change when having sex. Me i don't swear but when I have sex I start swearing like a sailor and saying sexual things well I feel girls who shy become more dominant and crazy when having sex. What ever personality they have in daily life it pretty different when the mind turns sexually active.

  • If it's JUST the physical act? Almost none.
    Those with the crappy personalities are alone rather quickly thereafter, tho.

  • Sex, not at all. Intimacy and love, it's more important than looks.

  • personalities look and feel the same in the dark

  • In a relationship it's very important

    One night stand then no it doesn't matter.

  • A lot tbh

  • Personality absolutely has a lot to do with attraction. If she has a bad personality and is super hot. And her bodily features won’t matter a damn thing. Being beautiful inside in my opinion is actually more important

  • A lot it is really important it reflects when the woman is in the bed

  • Enough where I won’t want to have sex if I don’t like them at least

  • A lot

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