Guys, how much do you enjoy your woman taking control in the bedroom?

My boyfriend is a big guy. He works with livestock so he's got the muscles of hard labor.

Anyway I sometimes get into the mood of tying him to the bed (posts) and having my way. Last weekend he didn't get to do anything but to be blunt "take it" (tied up, teased till hard and I on top for a ride). Maybe it's cause he can easily get loose but I find these little sessions rather hot.
Love it, ride me babe
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  • Personally, I love it.

    I'm a tall guy with broad shoulders and a good physique, and my girl is a tiny, petite little thing. I'm a dominant guy, and she loves to be manhandled in the bedroom, but there are occasions when we switch it up.

    It's hot for me, because it really shows her lust and desire when she takes control. I mean, I know that she enjoys our sex life as much as I do, but there's just something about her taking control that just proves that she can be just as horny as I can, because she's taking what she wants.

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  • Oh, that can be a blast. People often think of it in the most extreme terms (until fairly recently, I did myself), but it needn't be that; it can also be more gentle and loving. Frankly, I think playing around with power dynamics is something MOST people would enjoy, at least a little bit.

    That wonderful combination of someone wanting you that badly and taking care of you that deeply, with the added bonus of feeling that level of trust... There are no words.

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  • I would love it if my partner feels the need to take charge. To tell me that she has something she wants to do to me. Most of the time it feels like "hey I want sex, so fuck me, while I enjoy it and you do all the work."

    If she was like "I NEED this" then it would turn me on because it's something she wants from me.

  • My favourite positions are cowgirl, reverse cowgirl and doggy style, so I would say I love women controling me. Also, I don't know if this counts, but I love women giving me handjobs.

  • Depends on the mood. It can be fun for sure! But I can be in the mood to do the tying.

  • I like to be in charge usually but I LOVE it when a woman takes charge. Especially if she's more of a submissive. Total mind blow and its hot as hell.

  • Not sure, never tried it

  • You are my ideal women that's what I exactly want to have a girl to tie me to the bed and take control and just make me hers. Hopefully I can find a women like you.

  • Depends on my mood - I'm a switch so sometimes I like to be dominated and pegged, other times not.

  • Yes, I love getting tied up and letting her take complete control.

  • It is hot when a woman is riding me with all her bodyweight on top of me.
    She's in control and using that dick however her body needs it.
    I like that experience.