How much does it hurt to be whipped while doing BDSM?

[fit_fearless_braless]

[wankiam]

as the guy doing the whipping its very important to establish the level of pain my subs desired. some just liked it quite gentle while others really wanted to feel it burn. its a good illustration that communication is key and also always have a 'safe word'

[fit_fearless_braless]

As a woman I cannot imagine anyone eoman actually wanted to be whipped so hard it burns. Has any woman actually wanted you to whip them that hard?

[wankiam]

just one to be fair and i was always a bit hessitant but she seemed to need it. personally i prefer to use a paddle and be a bit less harsh

[AustinMan]

Are you the sub getting the whipping? What's (s) he using?

[fit_fearless_braless]

Yes I am. He is probably going to use a think leather whip, his belt and a flogger.

[AustinMan]

He needs to start with the flogger and ramp up the intensity, starting at medium. That' shouldn't hurt much. His belt, depending how thick and esp how wide it is, will probably really sting The whip he needs to be careful with. Are you looking forward to it?

[fit_fearless_braless]

I am excited but also nervous

[fit_fearless_braless]

I had a girlfriend who was whipped by her boyfriend with JUST the belt and she said it reallly really hurt!

[AustinMan]

Do you have safe words?

[fit_fearless_braless]

Yes we do

[AustinMan]

Ask him to start mildly and build up to the harder whipping. I'm a big fan of the cane.

[Iron_Man]

Depends how much you can
Tolerate pain

[fit_fearless_braless]

I am a wimp when it comes to pain

[fit_fearless_braless]

my sister just gave birth a few weeks ago... now that is true pain (childbirth)

[Iron_Man]

Oh wow Congratulations

[fit_fearless_braless]

Thanks. She was very strong considering she also suffered a vaginal tear

[Iron_Man]

Tough girl

[fit_fearless_braless]

She is

[Iron_Man]

Cool

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

It will all depend on the person doing the whipping and also the type of whip used. This is also why you always need to have a safe word...

[fit_fearless_braless]

It is definetly important to have a safe word during BDSM. How do you prepare mentally and or physically for a whipping during a BDSM session?

[Dr_Latex_McPeggin]

To be honest I usually have a drink or two before hand to take the edge off and also go over all safe words and actions. We have back up actions as sometimes we will use ball-gag’s and such. We also will pause here and there and verify all is well and okay to keep going. Doing that before hand and also having the safety checks in place takes the edge off or it getting too outta control.

[alltafgradur]

Your body can take fair amount of pain from whipping, you just need to be "warmed up" by starting small like flogger and then building up to some more intense whipping or whatever you prefer.
This may lead to a high or a bliss where you loose track of time etc.
I know because I have been on both ends of the "stick"

[fit_fearless_braless]

It is nice to meet someone who has been on both ends of the "stick" before; most guys are clueless about what woman go through during bondage or BDSM. I had had friends who have definetly the high or bliss you mentioned during a BDSM whipping. I also heard it referred to as "sub-space".

[Anonymous]

Can be anywhere from pleasantly stimulating to extremely painful depending on the implement and the technique. I have a suede flogger that can be pleasant if the middle of the tails land first, but somewhat painful if the tips land first or are allowed to wrap around the body. Generally the thinner the tails the more painful.

[fit_fearless_braless]

I have had a few friends who have done BDSM and been whipped. They said is definetly painful expecially the thinner the whip is... My best friend showed me a bruise from when she was whipped and the whip wrap around her body and the tip snapped on her nipple.

[Anonymous]

No idea since I'm always the one doing the whipping.

[fit_fearless_braless]

that makes sense lol