How much does your sexual arousal influence your behavior?

Most of my girl friends say that when they're horny, they don't necessarily need to do anything about it. It can just be something in the background and having sex or masturbating isn't always a choice they make. (I am not this way haha, I have to act on it.)

When you're aroused, do you feel you have to do something about it? Does it become the number one thing on your mind until it's resolved?

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  • I wouldn’t say my arousal influences my behavior. I am pretty committed to be thoughtful; rather than acting on impulse.

    I don’t drop everything and find a vending machine when I feel hungry. I plan ahead to have dinner someplace I like. Planning ahead lets me procure better tasting and more nutritious food, and savoring the idea of that meal lets me enjoy it more.

    My enjoyment of sex and masturbation (and flirting, dating, etc) affects my plans. I make lots of decisions based upon ensuring I have the opportunity to enjoy sex.

    …. but I seldom drop everything and run to the bathroom because I have a boner.

  • I’d equate it to hunger in a way. Most of us have felt a bit hungry either waking up or by skipping breakfast and going a long time without food. For the most part can know it’s a need but can delay eating to finish a project or do other things. But as the hunger grows eventually you stop other activities and get fed.


    So with sexual hunger if nothing else is a priority can take care of it. But living life most times gotta push it away until it becomes a need and then I get fed.

    • Ty for MHO

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  • I don't have any urge... I don't need to do anything... I switch soon enough to something different, so I wouldn't even have time to do something :D

    but I have a natural attention deficit, so I don't pay attention to many signals from my body... :D

  • Depends on the environment I'm in really. If I'm at home with a significant other then I'm probably gonna do something about it lol.

    • @mandyfire98 Does it come back worse the next time if you can't resolve it?

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  • I don't have any trouble controlling myself, so my sexual arousal only affects my behavior if I actually allow it to. And when it's safe to do so, I usually DO allow it to, but when it's not, I don't, and I'm fine.

  • It doesn't change anything that I am aware of!

  • I used to be like that. If iv not had sex in a while then it's all I can think about until I do have it. Masturbation is a last resort though.

  • For me I can handle being turned on, however I very much prefer getting the girl teased, excited, turned on, aroused, really excited and full on horny. Getting her that way so she has to act on it and she must take action. Taking it slow and making sure you press her buttons knowing she’s going to go from a gentle simmer to a full on hard boil.

  • When I'm on here, it influences it quite a bit, since I'm constantly being teased and frustrated by the women on here... lol

  • I liken it to being hungry and grouchy.

  • it just doesn't... I'm a grown up

  • It’s harder for me to focus when I’m aroused and I’m more likely to initiate things with my boyfriend, but I can always wait for it to go away.

    • But does it come back even harder the next time?

    • @Daily_Affirmation69 No

    • luck you hah

  • It's not like it becomes the number one thing unless I start indulging. If I do, I definitely have to go until I finish. Even if I have stop I'll continue as soon as possible

  • I can usually make it without having sex or masturbating, but it definitely messes with my mind 😅

    Also, once it starts hurting I have to take care of it sooner or later.

  • After the latest ejaculation, the feeling goes away completely. The pressure then gradually builds until I have to do something about it, otherwise I just develop a one track mind!

  • Yes for the most part but life gets in the way and you have to force yourself to forget about it. I do not masterbate so I don’t have this option

  • It can become distracting and I typically need to do something about it but can wait when the time is appropriate. I'm not yanking one off in the supermarket because I get horny lol

  • I would say yes, because it makes it difficult to focus otherwise. The worst is though, when I want/need something specific to get off too. I'm determined to either find it, or find a viable alternative. In which case, I can find myself horny and edging for days

  • I just deal with it might have to shift my penis to make more comfortable and with my job I get a few boner's

    Fuel clerk at Kroger's.

    How much does your sexual arousal influence your behavior?
  • i need a lot of viagra to get aroused but it makes me a sex monster

  • I don’t have to, but I certainly do if I can. Even if a little time goes by I usually get to it.

  • As a younger man little head has much more control over big head. As you get older you learn to put little head in his place.

  • Sometimes my penis does my thinking for me.

  • Yeah when I get horny I need to take care of it. It doesn’t go away. Whether it’s me taking care of myself or seeing if any of my booty calls are available… gotta get the poison out

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