How much is virginity valued in your culture?

[thegirlfromthething]

I’ve never seen anyone in real life care about it as much as people on GAG. Some guys heavily romanticize virgins here and I want them to them to know that we’re not all focused on being “pure” or wholesome by not having sex. It doesn’t have to be a big thing like that. Some of us just haven’t found the right person.

[arealteninch]

To me it doesn't matter what my country or people care about something so special between 2 people. .. if and that would never happen to me. Im 47 dont think there's a virgin my age wich mean i would have to engage with a young lady like yrself. would i be able to fall in love. i will say this. And i have told noone. that recently i secretly had fallen in love with someone. unfortu atly this person also likes woman and seemed to never have time for me. and just as i was going to confess my love. the same way the wind pulled her in. it pulled her away. there was m9neys in between. that were never paid. And yes that hurt alitle but that litle bit of time that i spend with thid woman because this is how i saw her. i admired her so much but never told or showed i remember the last day i spend time with her i wanted so badly to grab her close and kiss her passionately but i didn't want to be rejected and stayed to. Myself

[Zorrak]

Majority of guys prefer a virgin girl if they want a long term relationship because there is less chance of them cheating since the more men/women sleep with others their harmones that are responsible for bonding people together won't work as well and the man/woman will be tempted to look at others more often then someone that's only been with one partner for all the time

[Just_a_human]

I live in a Christian household. So my parents do believe that sex before marriage is big no.

However, I have no interest in ever participating in any sexual acts so I don't really see value in my virginity or anyone else's for that matter since I don't care.

[HedwigInABox]

It's because GaG is full of guys who can't get a girlfriend what makes them bitter towards women who have had sex with men who aren't them.
And no, I've never heard anyone care about it in real life

[chris_987]

Lol I wonder if you feel the same way about girls who can’t get a boyfriend

[HedwigInABox]

@chris_987 that they are bitter? I mean yes they can be.

[chris_987]

Lol there no such thing because girls aren’t expected to pull guys. So your making fun of men about something women will never experience. So when society changes and men have to look cute in order for women to talk to them and you realize you lack the confidence too approach women, and start to feel like the world and it’s rules are unfair. Then maybe you can have a say on why men are bitter losers, but until then your words are empty.

[HedwigInABox]

@chris_987 there definetly are Girls that are bitter cause they can't get a date. Beeing a women doesn't automatically mean you can get a Guy. And I don't care about people who can't get a date. I only think it's pathetic If they start to bitch about it and act like others are at fault or that they owe them anything.

[chris_987]

In my opinion there never bitter towards me if they cannot Get a date, they’re just insecure because they feel ugly. The women who are bitter are the ones that only attracted men that use them. Still there not bitter for the same reason as men. So yeah I would never tell women that pregnancy is easy so I don’t see how you can relate to something only men go through. That just my opinion tho.

[HedwigInABox]

@chris_987 there are ugly or fat women that can't get dates either. Or they have a terribIe personality

[chris_987]

I actually just watched a whole bunch of videos last night on YouTube about girls who’ve never had a boyfriend and they all admitted it was because guys don’t approach them. So even they don’t feel obligated to talk to guys first. I really don’t understand why you find it are to believe that women can’t relate to something that men go through. We are different after all.

[R_ūshī]

In my social circle and even at home, it's not something we talk about. It's like no one cares about it. lmao😂😂

[jamesgoldman]

It's not really cared about for either gender

[chriscdi]

here it doesn't exist

[Dchrls78104]

Not much, in my country; I've been ridiculed.

[oldoldold]

I never cared

[COMMODOREII]

Amen sister!! 😎🌹🌹

[GreenGold1992]

less than you'd think, not everyone has the same opinion of it

[DanOh2018]

I get that, honestly I enjoy teaching but it's not a huge deal or anything.

[Year3000]

I live in America, I would say it’s valued a lot for women in places like Alabama, and Mississippi, as much as in the Muslim world. Virginity isn’t as important in San Francisco, NYC, Las Vegas, but there is still a very conservative view of sexuality in those cities, but people mind their business.

[bklynbadboy1]

Honestly it doesn't really matter

[Lin144]

It's very important.