Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Let's be clear, I'm not talking about direct prostitution here. Instead I'm referring to the money guys will spend on a girl in the hope he'll get sex out of it. Every guy knows he can buy a girl expensive drinks all night and she can just say "bye" without so much as a smile if she hasn't the manners to spread her legs. But generally speaking most girls do and in a indirect way we're earning money from sex. Add up all the meals, free rides, reduced tradesmen's bills etc it probably saves us at least a £1000 a year and money saved is money earned.
Guys, how much do you spend on the pursuit of sex and how much does the investment lead to actual sex rather than just a verbal thanks?
How much money a year do you make/spend on the pursuit of sex?
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The majority have no manners
I don't count but roughly 50-100 for a girl
I typically dont spend a lot of money on dates i try to be cordial and pay at least a little bit though. However, In time and effort its probably a lot. It's just an endless cycle of going to clubs meeting girls sometimes you may get to sleep with a girl but usually not then you wasted so much time. Even when you sleep with her it feels kind of weird because she's a random girl and there are many consequences to this behavior. I would love to find a girlfriend but it is so hard to get a chance with a girl i feel like after a date they dont really even want to give you a chance, and i dont think i am bad looking, and I have a good job also. So apart of me is just giving up on sex and women it seems like you can't win and you just waste time, money, and emotions.
Each date I've been on is somewhere around the $100 mark for the two of us. So assuming I go on a date once a week that would be around 5200. Fortunately for my bank account, I'm not that popular 😅
I don't know how much I'd spend on petrol though.
$0. (No, seriously. I don't spend my money on chicks. I spend it on myself. That's my damn money!)
I'm trying to build a pro level sleeper street drift car on a retail budget, I don't have the money to spend on anyone other than myself.
@DeltaCharlieEcho Word.
Honestly never really thought about it. If I like the girl I just like her it's never a monetary thing for me...
It can be difficult to quantify. E. g. I recently took a lady for a trip to the lake district. Between travel, two nights in an hotel, and meals I got no change out of £500.00. What proportion should I assign to sex, and what to the other activities like walking, swimming, etc.
However, as a minimum, I spend at least £100.00 per month on meals with new dates.
None.
None. I don't care about casual sex.
About 200 pound, having facials and massages. And worth every penny...
My job gets me 6 figures but I spend maybe 300 a month on sex. The downside of a 6 figure job is busy all the time but I have GAG for the time I'm on planes etc helps a lot.
I don't spend on women in bars plying them with drinks.
I like to fish. If she comes along it's gas money and beer. That's a date. :)
None why do I have to spend money in the pursuit of sex?
I never really factored it tbh.
I'm not actually sure. I don't think it's a lot, I don't generally pursue sex so much as girls just follow me home from bars sometimes like stray cats 🤣
Why would I buy a drink for a chick I dont know. It makes no sense. If I'm talking to you without buying you a drink and you feel I have to buy a drink to be worthy of your attention, it already pronounces the underlying dynamic which isn't worth it. I dont spend money to get sex. I mostly do sit out dates and talks before anything altho the transportation costs can amount to about 1000$ a year. If talking to me without any gain isn't good for a girl I dont need that girl. She'll still give it to a dude she really likes for free so why stress
I don't. I mean I pay for most of the dates, but we're dating, not just having sex. Since I don't cheat, I haven't paid for sex. My girlfriend provides far more than sex
I don't pay for sex, I pursue love the old-fashioned way, by communicating and connecting.
i dont ever spend money on girls that aren't fucking me. I dont buy a girl a drink but she can buy me one.
If I have to spend a dime on sex I've spent too much. I don't want a materialistic bitch.
none?