How much of a deal do boobs and butt have for you?

Are you looking for someone with a good body, with a good size chest and an ass? Or is it all about the personality and in the end does their body not matter as much as you would’ve thought?
How much of a deal do boobs and butt have for you?
Personality > body
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Body > personality
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  • Having a 'decent' body is pretty important, but almost everyone who is reasonably close to their healthy weight has a decent body. Some women are naturally slim, some are naturally curvier - both look good around the woman's natural healthy weight, and both have large groups of men who think it's best.

    The equivalent would be me asking if huge muscles are important for girls, or if they only care about personality. Not all girls even like huge muscles best - plenty prefer a swimmer build or whatever. However, the average guy is skinny-fat. Any guy in decent shape is already doing better then most, whether for him 'decent shape' is more a lithe runner's build or a built football player. There's a big advantage to being in 'sort of decent shape', there's much less importance in having one specific shape over another.

  • Initially the attraction is physical because I know nothing else about them then what my eyes can see. A healthy body is always the preference. But as soon as I start to get to know them whatever attraction my eyes saw will only increase or decrease based on their personality.

    Probably the same with you. You see a cute boy and feel an attraction. But then if he acts like a jerk or is dumb as a rock that affects how you see him.

    • Exactly. Like all my exes have ended up being toxic and I used to find them hella attractive at the time but now bc of what they’ve done they couldn’t be more uglier.

    • That makes a lot of sense. My guess is the boys you have dated are not yet mature so tried toxicity is much due to immaturity. Since you have learned this about yourself and who you want to be in a relationship with, you can target someone older than you for their personality. Frankly it’s normal feedback at your age because generally speaking girls mature faster than boys.

    • @insolxnt hello how r u

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Why should people be forced to choose? This is in realistic without examples. How often are people forced to pick between the two extremes?

    • @nicolette777. Wats up how r u doin

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  • It's always the same..

    Everyone has different preferences, so big boobs / butts don't necessarily equal a better body for everyone.

    To me, it's important that my partner is attractive to me.. About as much as I have to like her personality. Still, I don't care about big boobs / butt at all because I'm not into big ass curves. I like my girls more on the average to small side.

    Size doesn't matter because for every size there is, there will be someone out there who likes it.. That's the last thing to worry about. Also, someone who'd reject you over that wouldn't be worth your time anyway.

  • Looks like, based on this tiny sample, that men are split. For me, personality, as you call it, is the larger force. Mostly compatible kinks.

  • I'm not going to spend the rest of my life with a girl unless I find her body irresistible--and that requires a big butt, wide hips, thick thighs, and a thin waist. Big boobs aren't required, but are still preferred.

    And it's not that her body is more important than her personality, it's that both are just too important to go without.

    • I have the exact same thoughts.

    • How's the single life

    • @jonahbona LOL! Contented! To say the least, a sex partner who also finds me attractive phyaically with a pleasant personality. 😄😄

  • I do find personality to be very important factor when I choose a girlfriend, but I also need to be attracted to her body, even if it isn't perfect or something that I would prefer.

  • For initial attraction the face and personality that's it don't really care about other body attributes.

  • Not much of a deal. I am attracted to my girlfriend because she's a sweetheart, she's a lovely person who I get along with. Her boobs and butt are the least of my concerns. Her wellbeing and happiness is my main concern.

  • Personality has always been the winner for me, if they have an attractive body to boot then great but i will always choose somebody i click with and enjoy being with over somebody who i may find more physically attractive but dont click with

  • Two big deals baby

  • A bit of each one

  • "Are you looking for someone with a good body, with a good size chest and an ass?" Yes. Everyone is. The ones who say they don't care are lying, either to you or themselves.

  • More like Personality = body.

  • Doesn't matter to me

  • Yes. I look body, soft and big boobs butts. When I see all these I get erection and want to touch and play with them

  • @insolxnt u r very gorgeous

  • I don't really care, as long as she's nice and not overweight. What I mean by overweight is like, having to go see the doctor. Like chubby and sorta heavy is fine with me.

  • For me boobs is everything

  • message me I will tell in detail

  • There are a LOT of blue liars on your poll.

    A fat girl with a great personality is not going to turn these assholes head, they all know they are interested in looks first. Fucking liars.

  • if the butt is big, that is a healthy compromise for being ugly and boring.
    I love eating ass