How much sex do men want in relationships?

Would you be happy enough with once per week? Or even 2 or 3 times per month if it was completely spontaneous? Or would you rather do the exact same thing every night?

So if it was a choice between a short session every night or two in the same position or a bunch of different stuff a few times a month/once per week, which would you prefer?

From past relationships, what has kept you the most satisfied? Do you find yourself getting bored if its too regular? Would you recommend quality over quantity or vicesa versa to keep you happy?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Once per week is not good. Its better than what my marriage is now, but if I were dating again and things dropped to weekly, I would end the relationship.

    Less than weekly starts becoming awful. Havong really infrequent sex leads to worse sex and feeling more pressure to make it count when it happens.

    Your quality vs quantity scenario is unrealistic. The less sex you have the shorter the sessions will be.

    Most satisfied? 6-7 times a week.

    If we aren't having sex that much I'm masturbating instead of being together. And that's pulling us apart.

  • I'd want it 2+times a day if we lived together/married. If we are dating 3-4 a week? There is no reason to do the same thing all the time... variety is the spice of life and can make anything new and exciting. If she doesn't...
    1. want to jump me everytime we see each other
    2. get aroused by my touch, dreams about it when we are apart

    Then we shouldn't be together... we aren't soul-mates. If you have to ask/beg/nag your SO to give you affection... you aren't "in love" and shouldn't be a couple.

Most Helpful Girls

  • as much as they can get, as for happiness 3 times a week at the very least
    or it was that way with my ex to keep us both satisfied
    if you are asexual you should probably try to connect with an asexual guy as well, you'll both keep each other happy and none of you will suffer from "blue balls" or cheat/masturbate to get release

  • I think that is an individual response for men. Some men (depending on age and focus in life) would take sex 3-5 times a week, but will deal with it a lot less. As we age, I think men focus on quality and types of sex over quantity and quick messy sex. they would rather their partner be in tuned to their needs.

  • It'll vary according to age, personality, and a lot of other factors etc.

    In my experience, in both my first and second marriages, 3-4 times a week on average, but sometimes just once or twice but also sometimes 5 or 6 times

  • As a girl with mostly guy friends, I know that if they're in a passionate relationship they want it 2-3 times a week but they want you to want it, too.

    • i wish to have everyday :P

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  • Sex at least once a day, preferably twice, with all our many kinks in the mix.

  • once a week is barely enough and 2-3 times is unacceptable.

    Ideally I'd want once a day or at least 3x a week.

  • I am lazy to do the sport so handjob three time per day may be enough.

  • Frankly once per week and even less sounds not much, I think that most young men prefer it every other day or even every day, in a relationship.

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  • My wife and I have sex once or twice a day. It's mostly the same position but things do change gradually. We know what works for me and what works for her.

  • 2-7 times a week

  • Why is it always a choice between two extremes in these questions? Why can't there be sex every other night and sometimes it'll be an exciting night of passion and other times it will just be a quickie in "one position". That is what a good sex life should be like, not this all or nothing stuff.

    • Exactly I disagree with both choices they sound awful

  • Why do you want to know? What type of a man will you prefer?

  • 8 times a day, minimum

  • All of it all the time. Daily, probably.

  • A bunch of different stuff a few times per week.

  • once, twice, three times. Depends on week.

  • I prefer early morning wild sex! But three times a day on just about every place, surface spot in the house works too, as long as I get to give her 2 or three orgasms orally first.

    • haha animal ;)

    • awwww... come on I'm not an animal, just a hot lover.

  • at least twice a week

  • I'd be happy with once or twice a week.

  • Everyday, but when you're willing to have multiple orgams

  • I think maybe 3-4 times a week. hope it'll help you.

  • There has to be clear communication between your partner to find out what he or she likes. Personally, I would prefer at least two times a week and in that explore each others bodies to find out what excites us. But, thats just me, you have to ask your partner and find out what works for the both of you.

  • Better plan, don't schedule it like that. Just freaking enjoy life, go with the flow ffs.

    • message me

  • Not necessarily every day, but I would 4 to 5 times a week.

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