How nervous do you get when having sex with a new lover for the first time?

What makes you nervous?

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  • I'd not be that nervous. Especially if it was with a girlfriend I liked and was comfortable with. Now if it's rushed then definitely thats no fun 😊

    • I'd just be the usual perfectionist me. Hoping that everything is as close to perfection and comfortable and as safe as possible. Condoms, lube, birth control, and her being comfortable and ready and lol even at 30, if i dated a 20s chick, I'm still like "I hope I'm not seen as an old fart in her eyes" lol 😆😆😆

  • not nervous, no...

    eager, excited, thrilled... yes

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  • Haven't had sex for 3+ years and the thought of having sex with someone new makes me super nervous.

    • Lol. That they'd be some weirdo or that they'd possibly be too rough, too gentle or just plain carrying a disease? Herpes lol 😆

    • Noo, just nervous because it's been so long and it's something very intimate with someone new. I'm also very nervous about kissing someone new again, same deal. Well, I am a little nervous about whether there'll be any compatibility or not.

    • You don't say? I'm all ears if you'd like to chat more privately, yet if not, cancel the follow and I for one wish you well in trying to score a lucky man someday who treats you like a princess 😍💕 👑 that you deserve

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  • Usually there are a few butterflies there. Nothing like fear but more of excitement really.

    • exactly ;)

    • Great minds think alike

    • haha ikr... we should be twins :P

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  • I've never been nervous. Excited and maybe a bit anxious, but never nervous.

    • Ha, nerves. One man's trash, one man's treasure. One man's excited is one man's nervous /anxiety. Lol. Sure 😊

  • Before I knew I was asexual I was so anxious and afraid I couldn't get it up. 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • Condoms breaks, birth control fails, or a tear. Or even a pregnancy or a herpes. all those things make me a nervous wreck even if I scored with a woman who was hotter than fire 🔥

    • Women are just as disgusting as men I don't care how hot she is I'm never fucking a woman

    • Enjoy the solace sir. Likewise I'm single and I don't mind that I don't mingle. Enjoy

  • I’m not nervous

  • not at all... more excited than anything