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How normal is it for my boyfriend to be watching YouTube videos of girls twerking while I'm asleep?

This happens only when he has been drinking a lot. It happens every time we drink together. I'll end up going to bed before him and he stays up until like 5 in the morning watching this stuff. Then he will come to bed and want to have sex. This even happened last weekend after we had been dancing all night together. I know for a fact he's not cheating and we seem to make each other happy in every way. I don't understand why he does this.
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Do any of you guys on here do this or something similar?
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  • Why would you care that he watches those things? I don't think it's weird at all, but it's definitely disrespectful if he's doing it with you around, knowing you don't like it.
    And until 5am? Wtf?

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    • Why would I care ha weeeeell because i love him and I have never wanted another guy while being with him. I would expect him to feel the same. I seriously think the damn Internet has fucked uo people's idea of what's normal and healthy. The shit is just too readily available.

    • The Internet? p*rn and men ogling women has existed way before the Internet. I think if you guys are open about p*rn, but you draw the line at twerking, he's probably just as confused about it as I am. Maybe you should clearly express to him that "twerking" specifically upsets you...

    • Yes men have been this way from the beginning of time lol but seriously... there is everything u can think of right at their fingertips now. I thin it makes it easier to get obsessed with it. But about the twerking... they are freaking teenagers. It's just gross to me. And if he had me dancing on him half the night why the hell does he need to watch more?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's weird, but not that weird because I like to fuck around on YouTube when I'm drunk. Are you sure he only looks at tweaking videos.

    • Uh it usually starts off with music videos of some band he likes then to iggy and Nikki he goes lol from there I guess he just sees the related videos and goes to town with all the little teens shaking their asses. It just really pisses me off

    • That's seems a little more normal. Sometimes you just go on a YouTube Benge.

    • Well it's like that every weekend for a year. He always starts off same way and after watching a ton of ass shaking shit comes to bed and wants it. He never has to watch anything to get turned on any other time... so u mean to tell me you think it would be normal if instead of going to bed with him I just stay up and watch hot guys? If I did that it would be because I'm bored with him. I don't know this is just annoying to me. Why why why lol

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  • it sounds like a fetish or turn on thing or something. but damn until 5 am? how many hours of twerking videos can a d00d watch hahaa.

    • Ya I know. Like I said he doesn't do it when he's sober. I guess he's really horny when he's been drinking and pretty much anything is attractive when you've been drinking nonstop for hours. I think he might have a problem though

    • actually I totally forgot to factor in the drinking right after I read twerking and youtube. if he was drunk then that makes more sense, hours and hours could fly by and it only seems like 20 minutes for him probably.

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  • This seems like an unhealthy addiction...

    • I know he watches p*rn and we are pretty open about it. I don't mind as long as it's not when I'm right there, but he has watched it the same day he has sex with me. And he watches like 50 or more videos at a time. I think it's just something he's been doing for so long, but YouTube and Twitter are different to me.

    • 50 videos or more at a time is an unhealthy addiction... dude I've never even heard of that. :( My boyfriend doesn't watch p*rn because he prefers making videos together instead. I would be pissed if he even watched one twerk video while next to me. I wish I were as calm as you.

    • Well maybe you're right, but I know for a fact that almost every guy watches p*rn and a lot of them watch it a lot. Maybe that means they're all addicted to the shit, but seriously... I don't know how much I would believe it if a guy said he never watched it. And I'm not calm, trust me. I went as far to post about it and waste my time worrying about it. I guess I don't sound too upset about it, but I defintely am. Just trying to get opinions on it really.

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  • maybe its just his fetish

    • Ha but I mean I danced all over him that night and he still did it. It makes me feel very insecure. I don't have a big ass so I guess that's it. Sad

    • O well if it is if u with me i feel like u shouldn't have to watch shitt like that cuz if so that just mean thats wtf he wana have sex with the hoes

  • You should just concentrate on sleeping without looking at what he is doing.

    • Uh I was sleeping. I woke up the next day and went to see what he had been looking at all night this time. It didn't start out with me looking at his search history. I woke up one night and went to his office and found him looking at stuff. Ever since I can't help but be curious if he is still doing it. If you caught your girlfriend watching videos of guys shaking their dicks for hours while you're asleep, how would you feel?

    • I would throw her out of the window rather than asking that over here !!

    • Ha what? Lol no way

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  • At least that's better than p*rn.

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