How not to give up on deepthroats?

I often gag, I keep trying trying and trying but there is nothing to do! I can't go down fully on a 6 inches cock.

I asked the guy to teach me and to hold my head down but as soon as he does, my gag reflex triggers and if I stay down too long I can vomit.

Any suggestions?

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  • best option is to take 1 hand and pinch the space between your thumb and pointer finger. to find the exact spot use your thumb slide up to the bone where both thumb and pointer connect. slide your thumb about 1 finger's width away from that space. take your middle finger and pinch opposite of that. you and everyone has a cluster of nerves in that part of your hand that is linked to your nausea (also works with headaches/brain freeze) don't pinch too hard you can also test that this works on your own so you can do it properly if this is that important to you.

    to further explain why this is a thing you have to understand a few things. your body is run by 2 systems executive and secondary. the other names are conscious and subconscious. how is this important? nearly your entire life is spent with secondary or conscious control. meaning you have full control of things. some instances bypass your secondary and target the executive control or your executive control steps in. these moments are moments that can be dangerous to your life. for example if you break your neck all the muscles in your neck will immediately collapse to prevent further damage. however there are pressure points all over the body that can be used to activate those centers and force them to happen or prevent them from happening. a gag reflex is an executive function that you can't control with secondary functions. as a result you have to target something that can control it via executive function. you have a cluster of nerves along your jaw that if someone rolls a knuckle across while applying light pressure to one side of your head will cause your head to immediately relax and just flop over to the side. that nerve cluster bypasses any resistance and focus you put on it and tells your executive centers that your neck just snapped so it triggers the executive response. I won't get into all of the pressure points and what they do I was explaining so you know that I am aware of what I am talking about

    • That’s an excellent explanation! I’ve heard quite a few people say something along those lines but not such a detailed description

    • @Tim2nice you are most welcome. It is a rather difficult nerve cluster to find unless you know what you looking for. The biggest thing I see a lot is people think that the harder you press the better the outcome. Which isn't true. You should only need enough pressure that it starts to lightly hurt. And you can test if it worked by jamming a finger or 2 in your mouth after. The effect lasts for a little while

    • @Tim2nice Sorry to the asker for interfering with you utmost interesting question. Just to let Tim2Nice that I am not able to answer to your reply on the noisy mother question as the asker has obviously not appreciated that I hit the bull's eye...

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  • Back against a wall so your struggles are easier to manage. That way he doesn't exhaust himself trying to hold you down. You just have to keep getting it pushed down your throat until you learn to accept it. I'm afraid that's pretty much the only way.

    • Thank you for the suggestion, I'll try

    • @claire2002 I agree that we need to learn to be obedient and learn how to accept it

    • @Jennz6 it's more about ignoring your choices and training your body directly. Your mind will catch up in good time.

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  • The good old toothbrush trick. Use the bristles and strike the back of your tongue. It will trigger the gag reflex. But do it lingerie each time. Eventually you'll time will get higher. Then at some point use the back of the brush down your throat. Be careful to not stab yourself. But Eventually you can lose the whole gag reflex. This is exactly how I got rid of mine. Now I don't gag at all

    • @Koneko911 we appreciate your help because I was just about ready to stop trying Deep Throat blowjobs 💕

    • @Jennz6 I think we are using our brain too much.

    • @claire2002 you are absolutely 💯 correct, we don’t need to think about it, just do what you are told.

  • Get him to put a collar around your neck and strap your face on so you can’t pull away. He can still pull your hair to help hold you closer. You won’t be able to pull away or stop until he is through with you.

    • I fully agree, excellent suggestion, to try

    • @patrick994 can be first if you want to be his favorite slut.

    • Thank you for the suggestion. I'll ask him to do that

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  • This seems odd to me. I've asked the same question but from the opposite pov. I have a 6” ween and I’ve had my fair share of bjs. Seemed like all of them had no difficulty fitting it all in their mouth. Definitely no gagging.

  • I'd force you down on my cock and keep you there. You feel like you have to vomit, but trust me that once it comes down to it, you can take much more than you actually think 😉

    • Really you woukd teach me like that? 😊 I would like it 😊

    • I'll make you choke on it quite a lot though, you sure you're up for it? 😏

    • I would thank you for the lesson

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  • Practice with a dildo and breathe out your nose. That’s really nice your learning how to please your master. Do you roll your tongue when giving him a bj?

    • I try but I don't think I do it correctly

  • Some hold your nose. You gotta be more comfortable with a cock in your mouth as if it’s something to taste.


    It’s ok if you gag. You’re cute and adorable. Choke on our dicks and feel happy and proud you’re trying to please us

    • I would thank you for teaching me

    • You’ve got to love how it feels in your mouth. Think of it as something yummy you’re sucking and swallowing on. Trust me, no guys going to make fun of you for choking on his dick. In fact he will probably be even more horny seeing you do so Try to think that the reason you’re choking on his dick is because he’s such a lovely and sexy guy that you can’t handle his sexual attraction, that he’s a really masculine man. Shove it down your throat and as you choke very hard on it realize this is what a man like him deserves. Push your throat down on him hard and as you choke wildly realize you’re in the comforts of his lap so you have nothing to worry about

    • I would like to get slapped first, then forced on a cock snd choked with it

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  • Use a big soft dildo to practice yourself. Much better than doing it with a guy

    • Practice makes perfect

  • its a natural reflex to gag so

    nth to do about it ig

  • Honey u got to practice it n u need a patient guy for tht n if u can't find a cooperative guy u can practice on toys (rubber ones)..

    U need to train ur throat n mouth for it... n oh a must do thing is practice deep breathing n also practice holding ur breath...

    @Jennz6 as u asked honey...

  • Gag is normal

    But if u have excessively it's man's bad luck bcz u can't hide it

  • There is no law saying you must do it.

    • We want to know how to do it

  • Keep on trying. If you vomit just wipe it off and keep going

  • I like the gagging sound.

    • Lots of guys have told me they like that. I'm always curious why they like it?

    • @msfuntastic it’s hard to explain. I think it’s because I can hear them struggling but they are trying to overcome it just to please me. Which is a turn on. Might have to do with porn too because I’ve seen it in that and then when it’s happening to me I’m like okay this is hot.

    • Sometimes I speak to the guy while I gag, they like it

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  • You are asking a guy, that hour problem, get advice from your gfs and see if they can give you any help to do it better

  • It's perfectly fine if you gove up on it. Not throwing up on or from a dick is never a problem.

  • I think you should practice on your own, but push yourself as far as you can in the moment. Practice makes perfect. Hopefully you can take all of him soon and hopefully he appreciates your hard work.

  • I agree with the comment about a dildo. Also, you have to train your mind to relax. If you can’t relax, you will go into stress mode and it is going to make it that much harder. You already have something hard enough trying to go down your throat.

  • Start slow and see how it goes.

    Maybe try with cucumber first or banana

    • That’s shocking advice. A banana is too soft. It can easily break into the throat and choke you to death

  • Aww yes sweetie you need a better teacher