How often do guys get blue balls? whats the case? And how turned on must u be?

1 1

Most Helpful Guys

  • A couple of things: despite what some people will tell you, it's real- I can speak to that personally. It's brought on by prolonged periods of arousal and stimulation with no release. The amount of arousal and release required varies, sometimes even for the same person. The more time and stimulation, the worse the feeling, which ranges from "minor discomfort" to "hard kick to the balls". It usually clears up a few hours after the stimulation stops and the erection goes down. The fastest way to deal with it, however, is to ejaculate; the problem is, essentially, a traffic jam, and clearing it out makes it go away.

    What it is *not*, however, is an excuse to force someone to have sex with you. Unless both your arms are broken, you can take care of it yourself.

  • "Blue balls" comes from being aroused for a long time without ejaculating. More so if there is something sexual like bad sex, a bad blowjob or bad handjob, because the testicles get bounced around.
    The two components are engorged prostate and seminal vesicles plus strain on the vas deferens pulling up on the testicles for too long.
    Ejaculation instantly releases the congestion but the soreness lasts a while.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

0 14
  • Blue balls is a myth, a stupid lie boys tell girls to get a pity handjo or blojo.

  • Not very often. I once went to the park with my girlfriend and I had a hard on the whole time, hours later when I reached home my balls were aching.

  • How often depends on the guys physiology. Essentially it has to do with blood vessels increasing during arousal and if prolonged, it can become painful. I've had it a couple of times and it certainly isn't a nice feeling.

  • For me, when I’m surrouned and I can’t get some alone time for myself. I am unable to calm myself down and then that’s the case😅

  • When I was young too often and I was always ready and horny

  • The only time I get blue balls is if I've been edging all day and haven't cum yet.

  • never had one :D

  • I've only experienced it once, after an entire evening of being sexually turned-on sitting beside a girl at an employee party (knowing that later on we would probably be having some "private" fun in my dorm room).

  • I have never blue balls they are all times on natural skin color. Its not normal I warn you

  • I have never experienced it. But my d*** becomes hard when I feel horny

  • When i got kicked in the balls.. ofc😂
    Or after a long time make out but wirh no tought at all

  • When you get super turned on and no release... It's pretty annoying nagging pain in your neither regions. It makes guys ache down there and only think of ways to release or do things to release. It's bad when a girl turns you on and just stops.

  • It's not a myth, but it can be prevented.
    I don't think I ever got blueballs from first base, but it may be possible. Second base is definitely enough. However, it also must be the case that I haven't came in a few days.

    If I go on a date with a girl, and we've never had sex before and I know there's a chance we'll go to first or second base but not beyond, I jerk off earlier that day. This pretty much eliminates the possibility of blueballs.

    So it's hard to tell how often it happens. If I have a girlfriend, it usually doesn't happen at all, because the pipes get cleaned every day or two. If I'm single it can only happen out of error if judgement if my part.
    However, it should never be used as an excuse to pressure a girl into having sex (especially if you two never had sex before). If a guy tells you that, just tell him he can go to the bathroom to finish off by himself and come back relaxed.

  • I’ve never really experienced that probably because I never let it get to that point and then I just masturbate