How often do you do 69 and do you really like it?

I just tried it for the first the other day and it felt awkward. I would get distracted when trying to go down on him because of my pleasure. I’m open to trying it again but I’m wondering if it’s just not for me.

How often ten do you do it? Every time you have seconds, every ten times, once a year? Any suggestions on how to stay focused on his pleasure while I’m getting pleasure?
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  • Our main event is mutual oral. We both cum better from it than intercourse.
    My SO is petite and it is easy to muscle her on top. 69 takes a lot of effort and you have to keep track of her arousal while distracted by your own. But if you manage to cum together, its pretty exciting. Ya gotta be up for it, though.
    One thing about her on top is the flood of fluids. There will be a lot and most of it is swallowed. I am not thirsty after her-on-top 69.

  • Tried a few times but don't really like it.

    Fundamental reason is cannot keep focus. If I enjoy too much, I can't perform; otherwise my pleasure is diminished.

    So we chose to take turn instead. Since girl has no resolution phase, I'll eat her first. After she is satisfied, she would eat me. Then before I ejaculate, we fuck.

Most Helpful Girls

  • i dont do it much unless he wants to. because as you said its hard to suck him while he is going down on me... i love to give blowjob and i can't enjoy it that way

    • How does Vaginal Intercourse feels like for you?

  • Rarely do it, and that’s just due to the crazy size difference between my boyfriend and I. We don’t really fit lol

    • He's 4ft 1 and you're 7ft 8, right? 🤔

    • Nope. Close though lol

    • I'm getting mental images. They are of my own creation though, so you're not to blame 🤔👀💥

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  • That’s normal sis lol

  • It's not for everyone. I think the best way to go about this is have him get you off first and then you get him off after.. assuming you can get multiple orgasms back to back

  • Nah, it's a shitty position. It sounds good on paper, because mouths and genitals are a fun combination, but it's hard to focus on giving good oral while you're recieving it.

    It's better to just switch off, if you both want to get off from oral.

  • Most times I've had sex. It's a good thing 👀

  • Don't worry about it. He'll be feeling real proud of himself if he is pleasuring you enough to make you lose concentration and that will make him extra excited.

  • Now and then. Its fun

  • It's awkward, yeah, so I only do it when a woman really wants me to.

  • Literally my favourite thing to do lol and I don't get it as often as I would like tbh, also I have had when a woman gets too distracted and I like that, it's pretty normal and so it shouldn't put you off

  • I'm 69ing as I type this.

  • Usually we both do 69 everytime. We love it.

    • Have you ever done it with a plus size girl? I don’t mind being on top during sex but this makes me feel more self conscious like I’m going to suffocate him lol.

    • Yes, but carefully, I mean she never put her entire load on me, rather shared it on her legs. But she was not very plus sized girl, however conscious of it.

  • This is the fun thing about 69. You don't know on whose pleasure to focuse on.
    I wish I would do it more often but wifey doesn't like it 😥😢😥

  • I like it and not enough times.

  • I really love it !
    I love to have all the juices in my mouth !
    Finger the ass a bit too

  • One time the girl did it to me, I almost burst in laugh as it's such a dumb position.
    Now only idiots can't change their mind so I'm not against trying it again.

  • I love it but we rarely do it

  • Not nearly often enough. Maybe only a handful of times in the last several years. I like when she's too into her feelings to concentrate. She tries anyway and honestly moaning with her mouth full feels amazing.

  • I love 69 and do it most of the time if the girl is willing too

  • I don't mind it if I am on the bottom as I have found I cum faster laying down, and for some reason the girls I have 69ed have cumed heaps when I am on top plus I it's uncomfortable for me I love her weight on top of me

  • First time is always awkward. But it becomes amazing! Gasping/moaning bitting, fingering, sucking on her while hearing her muffled moans as my cock slides down her throat. Its fun being on top as the guy but some women u have to be careful n not choke em

    • Thanks, have you ever done it with a plus size girl?

    • Oh hell ya!!

    • I've noticed every plus size I've been with is amazing at and looooves givin head. Lol

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  • We tried it once and decided it wasn't really worthwhile. The idea of it seemed fun, but as you said, it's harder to stay focused on pleasuring someone else while being pleasured (although moreso for her than me). Another issue is the lack of communication and ensuing awkward silence since neither of us can talk. Going down on each other one at a time works better for us.

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