How often do you fake an orgasm?

Faking orgasm is bad enough! But how often do you have to do this? If you have to do this a lot, why? Do you become frustrated?
More often then not
Vote A
Hardly ever
Vote B
Once or twice
Vote C
Less then two times
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  • Never have, and don't plan on ever doing it in the future.
    I don't see why I would have to resort to that. What good will it do for myself to make my guy think what he's doing is just right, when in reality it's just not cutting it? That'll only work against me.

    If I'm too tired, dehydrated, or in any way just not feeling up to it that particular time I just tell him that. Spares him the time & effort I know he almost always puts in to ensure I enjoy myself, as well as the stress when he's not able to get anywhere with it.

  • Well I did this to my friend while I was face timing him and saying "OMG I'm SO WET!" Because I was just being weird as usual. Then he blushes, laugh, and then looks at me weird after he's like "Oh you are?" And winks. I'm like "Uh yea my brother made me wet myself." There was a awkward silence, I said "He spelt water on me. DUH." That was a good day

  • I would never fake an orgasm. It will not do any good to have a guy assume I am getting off just so I don't hurt his ego.
    Faking orgasms is probably why so many women complain about lack luster sex. If you allow the bar to be set so low, it will never need to be lifted.

    If I don't cum, I don't pretend to... Period.

    • I think in some cases, if he was really trying a little moan might be in order. its hard to make women cum, lol

    • I get what you are saying. In my experience I don't think it's hard if they know what they are doing. Sometimes it requires some guidance, but they get so defensive when you try that I see why some women don't bother. My view is that it's my orgasm, therefore you either take my help or get out of my bed. I'm not here just for you.

  • I do it every time it's taking me too long to finish and I feel bad making him wait because he REFUSES to finish before I do.

    Sometimes I just can't come.. especially if I've had too much to drink. So I'll fake it so as not to torture my man. It doesn't happen often; maybe once every 2 months.

Most Helpful Guys

  • In real life, never had to... I cum most of the time, and if I don't will take help from my hand. We guys need the release. The sperm produced has to go s. o. m. e. w. h. e. r. e.

    But, in cybersex, I'd fake it almost every time. (Try masturbating with one hand and typing with the other. Doesn't happen!) Anyway that helped one of my partners to get a whole lot of orgasms, and though we're not together she still is very fond of me.

    • awesome response, i gave you a one up! i always wondered how guys typed and shot loads lol

  • I bet some guys pretend that they aren't orgasming since we usually orgasm more quickly than women, and it kills the vibe when they do, not to mention the guy's sex drive dropping instantly. I think people just want sex to be enjoyable for everyone, which I think justifies faking. I have heard that guys sometimes fake an orgasm if they're tired or something.

    • i agree. and they do. they pretend to catch it in their hand or something right? regardless, i dont think that faking is a bad thing. well,, if its not all the time that is.

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  • when you know your not going to come, and he is trying i would rather fake than make him feel bad esp i know i am tense etc so its at least as likely to me my fault and if that makes me bad then i can live with it not to be unkind

  • I was going to answer the biased poll and then realised there's no "never" option. -_- I'm honest and tell the guy I didn't finish, it's not a big deal if I don't, I enjoy the whole thing.

  • I refuse to fake it. If I can't finish then fine, whatever, just know I'm probably not coming back for seconds. I got plenty of toys at home that can do a better job then you did.

  • I never have

  • Never. I'm blunt so he will know my frustration if I don't get off

    • I see. So its all pluses for you! ty for your reply!

  • Never ever never never.. * :) x

  • Only when I know I am not going to get there.

  • I have before just so we could finish up. I wasn't all that horny but she was. She came a couple times but didn't want to stop until I got mine so I just kinda faked it so It could end with her being happy she satisfied me to

    • thats understandable.

  • I would never fake an orgasm. It's not fair to the guy

  • Never had to fake one 😝

  • Cows would be such a good teachers... they do fake it while they getting milked

  • Mostly girls are the one fake on bed.

  • I've never been in an instance where I wanted to fake one mainly because every time I've had sex I really wanted to cum so I didn't feel the need to fake it lol.

  • Never! Lol. If I did not have an orgasm, I would tell him I did not so he would do something about it.

  • I wouldn't say I "fake" orgasms, it's just that I make so much noise in bed (because sex is a-w-e-s-o-m-e!) that my boyfriend thinks that I've cum even though I haven't and I never tell him about it. That's mostly because orgasms are very important to my boyfriend because he thinks that I haven't enjoyed sex otherwise, which I totally do. It's the best feeling in the world, it's just very hard for me to cum.

  • Why would you? (virgin)

    • for many reasons

    • For example? :/

    • your not attracted to that person, your dehydrated, your stressed, sick. or you just can't lol

  • Never. And I don't have them either. So when my boyfriend and I have sex we just go until he cums and then we're done. Faking an orgasm is like lying to him, and lying to him is something I do not do.

  • I only have a few times mainly because of how long we were having sex for. After multiple orgasms from her i still wasn't close to finishing. So in fear of making her to sore to have sex the next day i just ended it there and finished up the next day.

    • good man, you should have had her end you with oral.

    • Eh i was fine with it, she was dripping wet and already had gave me a lot of oral. I was perfectly fine waiting another day to do it all again.

    • oh, i see. what causes lack of orgasm? dehydration? not enough pressure, or maybe to much?

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  • 100% of the time.

    • oh man, thats like way bad!

    • Eh, girls aren't good at sex.

    • ah, how about guys?

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  • never. if he sucks and useless make him understand that and make him learn how to please you.

    • i like this feisty answer!

    • Good answer. Most guys are willing to learn. Practice is the key !! lol