How often do you have (or go without) sex when you are not in a relationship, have a friend with benefit or dating?

How often do you have (or go without) sex when you are not in a relationship, have a friend with benefit or dating?
And what is the longest you have gone without it
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  • When was in a relationship, and now that I’m married, I don’t think I’ve gone longer than maybe a week or two without sex. When I wasn’t in a relationship, it would be as long as it took before I had a new boyfriend and was ready to sleep with him, so at one point it was a few years.

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  • During the last 2 years of marriage with my ex-husband we had a completely sexless marriage. I had no sex for a year after that. The year after that I only had sex a couple times. However, since I had sex for the first time with my now husband the longest I think we've gone without sex was a couple weeks (But even then we were having "sex" via Skype). We typically have sex 2-3 times a week.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Before the lockdown, when career was OK and hence with enough for the mundane, sex was regular, like 2 to 4 times a week.

    With the lockdown, things got more and more tense and the "mood" got lesser each passing month. Sex was irregular since March and looking back... none for 2 months already.

    Ya... its time to call my SO. Thanks for your reminder 😁

  • It’s been 2 years but I’m kind of short so it’s hard to get laid 😂

    • Really? All the guys I have ever been with have been the same height like me or shorter.😄 ( i am 177 cm, 5’9”)

    • I’m only like 5’5 lol it’s not that bad I guess though

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I only have sex when in an exclusive relationship before my current man I went three years straight with nothing just me myself and I and toys

  • Like never. I prefer sex when im in a longterm relationship and in love. Even then, i have to be fully trusting. I've only given that to two guys and neither of them ended up deserving/worthy

    • I read that as you have to be fully thrusting!! Lol xD

    • @Capes 😂😂😂😂 you so freaky! Love it haha

    • Hehe!! I too love how freaky u r Desi! 😛😛 Can't even say howw muchh!! 🙈😜💦💦

  • When I was younger had friends with benefits we would get together as often as we could maybe every other week. In recent years had only a few hookups, but guys I generally had interest in and we maybe had sex a couple times so periods would range from 3-9months in between. Longest without prob 2yrs.

  • So what, with strangers?

    • You know, in a situation where you dont have someone that you can have sex with on the regular.

    • So no relationship, no dating and no fuck buddies? That leaves strangers

    • Okay

  • I’m still a virgin

  • Until I like a guy enough to sleep with him
    Tried friends with benefits and didn't work out both times, not my thing
    And the longest was 3 years

    • How does vaginal intercourse feels like for you? Please describe me that..

  • I’ve been without it for 6 years and counting.

    • By choice or coincidence?

    • Not by choice. I guess it’s because I’m not attractive enough.

  • I could go a month without sex but it's not preferred. Right now I'm single and mingling

    • How much mingling are u doing? 😉🙂

    • @Capes enough

    • Ohh, hmm.. how often do u get horny tho?

  • I try to have sex a few times a week in a relationship. I'm picky about sexual partners when I'm single so the amount of sex varies but I've never gone more than a month without it.

  • are you counting masturbating or not? I've gone a long time without sex like more than a year. for masturbating maybe a few weeks? after a couple weeks it gets hard to ignore my body's needs

  • Since 2014 to now so far.

    • Omg really?

    • @moonpie89 unfortunately 😥

    • You've been trying though right?

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  • 1 week

  • 10 years could've got some but didn't

  • Gone 5 years with out is longest, right now it’s been over a year and not by choice at all

  • I've gone without sex my whole life. The longest I've gone without masterbating, however, is about a month.

  • I broke up with my boyfriend in December.
    And I haven't had sex after that.
    It just feels strange.
    I'm insecure about my body and I don't like to show it to anyone. So I dont think I can really do casual hook ups. And if I'm nervous I dont get wet. And if I dont get wet it makes it really hard to have sex.

  • I'm virgin and ugly.

    Woah! That make sense! Hahaha😆😞

  • Still a virgin at 22.

    • Want to sexchat?🔥

    • @osaamakhan no osaamakhan no