Girls, How often do you want sex in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

How often do you want sex in a long term / stable / committed relationship?
And if the guy is not satisfying you with that amount then do you tell him straight up and ask him to be a man , or you keep it to yourself only and relieve yourself by masturbation?

Bonus : If your guy got some dysfunction such as erectile dysfunction or pr mature ejaculation?

[whatthehellwasthat]

Honestly, I feel like im always on. Its like people who go "Eh, I could grab a bite." So I've yet to turn down sex. But I also dont live with my boyfriend so its probably only like 5 or 6 times a month... He does have some issues though. He works in construction and when he's just flat out tired he'll lose it even if he really wants sex. It frustrates him like crazy, but I just remind him that we can always try again later. He'll sleep over and then he'll wake up super hard and it really makes up for the night before.

[Asker]

Interesting!😂

[Anonymous]

Only when I want kids

[Asker]

✌✌👌✌ ONLY sex when you want kids... otherwise NO nudity, NO cuddling naked or otherwise and no touching each other's body?

[Opinion Owner]

If you’re asking a question, I mean no intercourse till I want kids. Other things are completely fine

[Asker]

If there is NOTHING else either. Then that's also great?

[Opinion Owner]

Yah, girls don’t need sex to live

[Asker]

Boys need sex to live?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, they do. There is no guy in existence that you’ll hear say “I can live my life a virgin, and die a virgin”. You could hear many girls say that, but you’ll never ever hear that sentence come out of a guy’s mouth

[Asker]

Even those girls who say I do not need sex, they still need some sort of physical relationship with a man/woman. They still want naked hugs and cuddles and physical touch

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, but girls can go a lifetime without intercourse or sex of some sort. Guys will not and can’t last a lifetime without it for biological reasons as well as societal reasons

[Asker]

What are the biological reasons?

[Opinion Owner]

In a nut shell, high levels of testosterone

[Asker]

Men are inferior. Told you

[Opinion Owner]

How are guys inferior?

[Asker]

Because of testosterone. They have high sexual drive. High body hair. Baldness on head. Beard. Penis and testicles. Everything is inferior

[Opinion Owner]

That doesn’t make girls superior - we have to shave/wax all of our body hair off to keep a “feminine” look, have to groom our eyebrows, have too low of a sex drive, need to alter our face with products to look a certain way, go through menstruation, have 2 hormones that cause pain, etc

[Asker]

2 hormones? What? Girls keep low sex drive by choice? Girls don't have to shave face, chest and stomach...

[Opinion Owner]

Girls have estrogen and progesterone. When these are imbalanced, they cause us majour stomach, back, and head pain. And no, girls don’t keep a low sex drive by choice. We’re built like that because we have 90% less testosterone than guys have. The more testosterone you have, the more sexual you will be. But since girls lack that hormone, we biologically and naturally have a low sex drive. And even though girls don’t have to shave those, shaving our legs, armpits, pubic area, and wherever else girls choose to shave becomes a real annoyance since we have to do it every few days

[Asker]

Girls themselves want to be plastic smooth. That's the issue. They actually don't have coarse messy ugly body hairs... they should enjoy the light fuzz instead of suffering to get Plastic / dolphin smoothness

[Asker]

Imagine how bad it is for men. Coarse pube type hairs on face and body. Shave it often. End up having stubble and ingrowns. Shave again. If left natural it's a mess and animalistic. Imagine how bad it is for is to be sexual. When our female counterpart doesn't wants us sexually

[Opinion Owner]

Shaving is the same for girls, our hair is more thicker in those areas than on our head. It Happens to us too if we don’t shave. It turns to a mess, can get ingrowns, and looks ape - like if we don’t shave or wax it off. And yes, girls may not have stomach, back, or chest hair like guys do. But if a girl would go a month without shaving her legs, armpits, and whatever else, she would look like an ape. But since no girls will go that long without shaving, you don’t see it Plus it’s the same for us. It’s difficult trying to live while our male counterparts want us to be wayyy more sexual than we actually can be

[Asker]

Do you like it when men get castrated to reduce secual feeling?

[Opinion Owner]

i dont know because i dont know any guys who have been castrated. but if he got it done just to please his significant other, that's stupid. if he got it done for an actual reason like it's interfering with his everyday life, then it depends. a guy doesn't need to get his balls removed to feel and be less sexual. it mostly comes from a lack or abundance of control

[Bliss-taylor]

Married to my husband for almost 7 years been together 8.
Like 3 times a week usually. Rarely its only (but atleast) once a week.
Because of his job he sometimes gets ed from stress. I just deal with it. I dont really say anything anymore. In the begining i was worried but after figuring out why it would happen it got easier. Its been a while since I've had to deal with it. No I didn't relieve myself. I dont like doing that.
He usually satisfies me I don't need to say anything. He tries even when he has ed but I get out of the mood when it has happened.

[DirectMail]

I know sex can be for pleasure but it’s best to perform that act when you want to procreate.

If a man doesn’t satisfy his woman. They should discuss the issue and not make it a big deal.

[Asker]

You want sex only when the couple wants kids?

[DirectMail]

I would like to but I’m sure it won’t be like that.

[Asker]

Nooooo It would be GREAT!✌ Some men want this way. So , NO nudity in front of each other? NO cuddles?

[DirectMail]

In this generation, Sex is so common even children as young as 13 are interested. Cuddles are fine and nudity only if we’re married.

[Asker]

Ya ya. If married You would still expect to get naked in front of each other?

[DirectMail]

I would not “expect” it would come naturally.

[Asker]

If a guy is shy to strip naked?

[DirectMail]

If he is shy, I would respect his decision.

[Jessicaml]

I need a lot of sex like at least once a day I would say once in the morning and at night is preferred. If the guy in with can’t hang I might just take care of myself or deal with it. Especially if I love him. If he had problems with erection and ejaculation there are other things we could do together

[Asker]

but if a guy can not handle ejaculating twice daily on a regular basis and he gets weaker by it. Would you still want him to do it at least once a day daily?

[Jessicaml]

If he could. Like I said if he has a problem there are other things we can do

[Asker]

if anything you want any sexual act at least once a day?

[Jessicaml]

No it would be nice but if I can’t I will either wait or take care of myself if I have to

[Asker]

Once a week would do?

[Jessicaml]

Yes it would

[Asker]

If with age a man gets ED?

[Jessicaml]

I don't know..

[AngelJames]

After 12 years I still want it at least 3 times a week. More if the weekends get out of control 😈.
Best thing is that my man wants it as much as I do.

[Asker]

If with age a man gets ED?

[AngelJames]

We are 56 and 55 years old. So far, so good. But we all may need some type of "aid" as we age. When that time comes, he and I will handle it together

[HOAAH]

I think that about 2x a week is good, at least once a month.

[Asker]

👏👏👏👌✌ Less sex drive!✌ More healthy man. Good. You are nice for a man.

[fauchelevent]

I have sex about four - five times a week and that's good for me. I'd be cool with maybe a little more or a little less but this is what makes me happy. If my partner weren't satisfying me, I'd be honest about it with him as I'd want him to be honest with me. I think that there's meds to help with those conditions so I can't imagine it'd be a huge issue.

[PrivateGurl1234]

Everyday I want sex in a relationship it’s important to be intimate with your man and helps with bonding closer just like talking does

[Asker]

actual sex is necessary daily?

[PrivateGurl1234]

Well for me it is I’m a very intimate and sexual person but probably not every single day.

[Asker]

once a week is good enough?>

[ChiChick]

I love it daily especially if the attraction is intense. In long-term relationships, however, both have to keep fanning the flame to keep things from going stale. More time exploring each other, schedule sex only time, role play, etc. Satisfaction should definitely be addressed in the open. There’s are many holistic remedies for ED etc these days.

[Asker]

Sex once a week is ok?

[AlexandraUchiha]

EVERYDAY (at least once a day i know im a pervert lol)

[mashie]

My daddy and I plan to have sex everyday multiple times a day!!! It what we both want, and if he were to develop ED, we would deal with it accordingly hehehe

[Asker]

Daddy?😱