I’m very unhappy with my current relationship. We only have sex 4 times a month and we see each other a lot. Every other relationship I had we had sex 4 times a week.
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RealMarekYoda
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You need to discuss it with her. You need to make sure the lack of sex is not indicative of some deeper problem in the relationship or in her past. If not, you need to see if she is willing to have sex with you frequently enough that you can live with it, otherwise it will harm the relationship.
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BeenThereLovedItYoda
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She probably has a lower libido than you are used to. If she does, then you are not sexually compatible and it will ruin the relationship eventually. How fast depends on your tolerance of being turned down for sex more often than not.
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ushagomezMaster
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There is no rule for every couple is different. However I feel it is important that you both have similar need and desires so that there is no mismatch. Personally I would find 4 times a month pretty awful. We like to enjoy at least once a day.
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Joywin
+1 y
Thats something i would agree with!!
ushagomez
+1 y
@Joywin I think that is what most people enjoy
Flower7Master
+1 y
4 times a month is not enough. You should consider leaving the relationship if it’s not satisfying you. It sounds like the 2 of you aren’t sexually compatible. That’s a very serious problem that can cause major issues between couples.
He is probably into watching porn and masterbating to it. Guys that do that don't want to have very much sex with a woman. Why? Because he has already emptied it.
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BabyGirlRobinXper 3
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Bro I'd do it every day, maybe multiple times a day if I had a boyfriend. You just have to communicate with her or break up.
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gaguser30
+1 y
Too horny i see lol?
SheyhoneyExplorer
+1 y
I would do it everyday for multiple times. Your sexual needs are valid in a relationship and you need to talk to her about it babe
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Apple1996Master
+1 y
I personally need it like 3 to 5 times a week and usually my husband is more like the 2 times a week but we make it work
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ND4SPD31
+1 y
Damn, lucky! Haha.
Apple1996
+1 y
@ND4SPD31 yeah unfortunately he is overseas at the moment so I'm stuck masturbating a lot till he gets back 😔
ND4SPD31
+1 y
Ahh damn that sucks. I wish my partner had the high sex drive u have. Lol.
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Apple1996
+1 y
@ND4SPD31 trust me it's a curse. I wish I could tone it down just slightly but I'm pretty sure that's impossible
ND4SPD31
+1 y
Damn. Lol. I sent u a pm.
erin_irelandXper 7
+1 y
Unless on my period about twice a week
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slatybMaster
+1 y
End it. You aren’t compatible.
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exitsevenMaster
+1 y
I would like it every day. The reality is 3 or 4 times a week.
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little_black_dressXper 5
+1 y
With my ex we had sex twice a day
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jb12358Xper 7
+1 y
3 or 4 times in a week sounds about right. If it’s early stages of a relationship then probably more than once a day
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Still-aliveGuru
+1 y
Communicate that youd like it more. If age says no then respect it or leave. Its your choice
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888theGreatMaster
+1 y
I think at least every 3 days
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SeppelYoda
+1 y
Once a week is good
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ZygumExplorer
+1 y
It depends on the choice and physical condition of the couples. Some have 3 times daily some have 6 times in a week
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jimmy2Master
+1 y
Well it ip to you to refresh it
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Anonymous
+1 y
Sounds like you figured out how to get a girlfriend quite early in life
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