I am a college student and, being in a college relationship, I always struggled with the question of how long should you wait before having sex for the first time and then after you do it for the first time, how often it should happen. Please lend me some advice. Currently I'm trying to do twice a week but it's getting a bit tiring.
I don't have sex outside of a committed relationship and it takes a while for me to get comfortable enough to have sex with a guy. For me it's at least a month, maybe longer. I need to know and trust a guy before I get that intimate.
As far as how often, if you are getting tired of having sex only twice a week then something is wrong. Either he is not the right guy for you or you have a low libido. Sex should never be a chore, especially for someone your age. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years and if we're not having sex at least 5 - 6 times a week then I get grumpy.
Thank you for your honesty. I know it's definitely probably at least low libido cause I never really had sex that often with anyone. The last time two times we did it didn't feel too special. He came but I didn't.
You should be having it whenever you want it and if it's getting tiresome then somebody's doing something wrong because it should be energizing it should be making you wide awake and it should be making you high I would say don't do it until you're ready until you know that the guy that you're going to do it with is in it for you not just himself because there are many guys especially in college did just want to get their nut off and your left lane there by yourself thinking WTF just happened you're finished already so make sure the guys into it to please you you will know exactly when you want to do it because if he does it right you will want it all the time
It's as often as you're comfortable with. But, low sex drive can also happen from thyroid issue and other hormone/endocrine issues. Might be worth looking into. But, again, don't hold yourself to a number: it's your and your partner's satisfaction that's key. When you're both satisfied that's the magic number.
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It depends on the couple. For some once a week is enough, while others want it every day.
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There is no set number of times a week to have sex. Have it when your horny. Maybe that's once a week, maybe you skip a week a have it 3 times. It's your decision. Only do it when you're in the mood
So here’s the question…. Are we talking sex two times a week or dates two times a week that culminate with sex? Because I would agree with twice a week for an actual climax but I would for sure want to play tease and make our way more then that.
There is no specific answer.
When ever both parties feel like having sex.
Sometimes life gets in the way.
As often as you want! I used to fuck my future ex-fiance at least 3 to 5 times a week!
Sex should happen as often as you want it to. Twice a week is not much for me, but it sounds like it's too much for you, and that's perfectly find.
My advice is to focus less on sex and more on intimacy. That means you are not always having intercourse, could be cuddling or making out. The thing is to connect and shut down the outside world and feel each other. Im guessing if you are not feeling special something is missing in terms of intimacy? Or am I wrong
What ever works for the person
It depends on how much you're together. One guy waited about 6 months, I think. It's hard to tell, I knew he was having sex then, but I don't know if it was the first time since he met the girl. I also know when he met her.
Whenever you fucking feel like it!
How do you know you're in a relationship, if you've not had sex yet
If thats the case, then we're "all in relationships", right?
Well I've been sexy something amazing but sometimes we're very busy with activities you have to do especially if you're in college so it's something you have to talk with your boyfriend about
How many times you feel, it is a matter of a heart and soul too not only of the body.
As long and as many as you want
in college, daily
It should happen when it happens
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