How often should you see a FWB/fuck buddy?

[Anonymous]

We see each other maybe once a week and a 1/2... Is this too much? I want to see him as much as possible because the sex is great and I don't have anyone else around at the moment. The thing is I hate that I feel 'rejected' when I straight out ask "wanna bang tonight?" (thats how he asks me also and thats the kind of level of relationship we have) and he rejects saying he's got plans. I know I shouldn't feel upset... but still. The sex is great, so I'm hoping its not me. This is what I hate about FWB/FB relationships! I shouldn't have to question my emotions like this.. emotions shouldn't be involved! URGH.

[Anonymous]

Maybe find a boyfriend instead. You'll have unlimited sex, if you both agree to it, and a stable emotional bond. It's a win win situation. Have great sex and be madly in love with each other.

[ComDom]

I think the amount of time to spend with a "fwb" that is optimal in that type of relationship is difficult to determine. Something tells me this situation isn't going to end well for you.

[Asker]

i'm moving overseas mid February .. hence why this kind of relationship began in the first place. It has a definite expiry date. But this contributes to why Im thinking I want as much as I can get while its available! He's a real catch though and gets around... so i guess thats where our wires get mixed

[ComDom]

I hope you've conveyed that information to him because that would make a substantial difference I'd imagine.

[Asker]

no he knows! Thats my problem.. he knows im leaving soon. So I want a lot of sex of course haha yet he still often says he's busy. But when we are together the sex is great and we BOTH have a lot of fun... thus why I wonder if its me... bleh. Bad situation all up really.

[ComDom]

You're probably overthinking it. He probably is busy, distracted or something similar. If he avoids you that's a bad sign though.

[Rahdle]

Keep your eyes open for someone that you can bang AND be emotionally attached with. It will feel much more enjoyable and have far less rejections

[zorro8888]

As often as you want.

[curiousmink]

If you love the sex go for it, but don't be disappointed if it goes no further

[lon7654]

when u lonely or horny and need to masterbate