How often would you like to have sex?

[Subarugirl]

Leave your comment below.

[MCheetah]

I don't know. But I think not doing it all the time makes the experience better when you do it again. So probably not every day.

Kinda surprised who the OP of this question is. Would figure she'd find heterosexual sex to be "misogynistic" or "part of rape culture" or something. This is almost a human-like relatable post! I wouldn't even figure she has sex! ... Not to be 'rude.'

[Subarugirl]

Well it seems that I surprise you quite often, tall guy

[marish01]

Lol why does he say he is short. Is he kidding?

[Subarugirl]

@marish01 he’s 5’ 11” which is 2 inches taller the average man in the United States and about 4 inches taller than the global average, but it would try appear that he really believes that he is short, so much that he’s referred to it as a deformity

[MCheetah]

@Subarugirl And yet, at 6'0" (assuming you're not lying), even *you're* more masculine and bigger than me, and yet you think I should accept mediocrity, failure, or uselessness for some reason, as if I'd ever accept being called "average" or human trash. I don't expect people to understand not wanting to be a genetically worthless being, but assuming you two are both straight women, it's especially BS for you to sit here and try to pretend like you'd prefer dating a 5'2" man over a 6'2" one! PLUH-LESE! You wouldn't even have sex with a short guy.

[marish01]

I know. The way he talks about his height would sound logical were he 5 feet tall.

[Subarugirl]

Except you are not mediocre your stature is well above average...

[Darknut3]

Well I masturbate about twice a day. That seems to help but hardly ever have sex. A sexless marriage for some time now. That may be one of the reasons my boss is attracting me. Why would my boss volunteer information that she hardly ever sees her husband and they are like ships passing in the night and they hardly communicate? After she left the room i analyzed what she said and took what she said as (like the husband is on a different schedule and not meeting her needs) ? Or is emotionally available? Would that be a fair assessment, what should I respond with?

[Faith18letsgo]

I agree that she’s subtly saying she’s down to cheat. Doesn’t mean it’s a good idea cheating almost never goes well and if she tries to blame you she has a lot of power over you. I’d ask you wife if she’s open to an open marriage.

[Faith18letsgo]

You could also start making sure your going to bed when your wife’s going to bed and ask her, can you hold me while I masturbate? Or you can just go in for some steamy kisses.

[Darknut3]

@Faith18letsgo i tried talking to her today at lunch and it was awkward! at first i was pouring a soda. She comes walking up a few feet from me and is at the other end of the table (it was only me and her standing there) the rest of the staff were sitting at their desks nearby. I said hey there getting some fettucine and chicken huh, good stuff. She just replied. um yeahh its good. Then awkwardly i said so um got all your Christmas shopping done yet? (forgetting that i had actually asked her that and she told me she did a few days ago)! she's like yep got it all done! got her food and drink and walk on past me back to her desk. Im sure the people around heard the whole interaction. i felt embarrassed and frustrated I then went and got my coat and went for a walk. I felt like I was gonna cry. I know sounds dumb. Come back about 20 minutes later and we were going to play a teambuilding game. I was standing there waiting for it to begin, of course all by myself (im shy so i dont usually interact to well) but i try as you can see. She walks in stops like 3 ft from me and stands there for like 5 seconds. It sure is hot in here isn't it? I said yep sure is! I guess i had answered in frustration. Im not sure if she even noticed. she walks off again to other coworkers.

[Darknut3]

@Faith18letsgo nope not a chance she's stated that early on. That im her man and thats it.

[Darknut3]

she barely spoke two words to me today in the break room. she walks in with a really red blushed face and gets her food puts it in the microwave slams the door sort of and just stares at the tv ahead. again me in her in there by ourselves. its awkwardly quiet with just the sound of the tv. i ask her how she is doing today to be polite and she kept facing watching tv said sigh im doing alright i guess! what about you? im good. no follow up conversation either way.. i waited and i think she was waiting... i felt my heart beating out of my chest and got out of there. (the first time thats happened to me like that) I turned and all i could muster was 'see ya' she said the same and we went our own ways. later in the day i was leaving she was standing there talking to a coworker and he sees me and interrupts her even and says hey man (with her standing there didn't even look at me, but laughed, at what he said to me) when he said see ya next year!

[Faith18letsgo]

It’s ok that you were on the brink of tears awkward interactions are tough and sometimes painful. If she only sometimes wants to cheat on her husband I definitely think you should back off.

[Faith18letsgo]

Damn that sucks. Some people are really stuck on monogamy I’m glad you asked her though.

[Faith18letsgo]

I really don’t think this woman is ready to cheat even if she wants to.

[Beatrix7]

me and my ex when we where together had sex four or five times a day then before bed i slept with him a few times after we fell out and he left me for her it went to about 4 times a day still not that bad but then he got went behind her back now he has 2 girlfriend i think it went to 3 times and i dont visit anymore am no ones toy a like loads of sex but i will say this its not the most important thing to me in a relashionship but i like a lot of it

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

2x a day and give my man oral as much as he wants it beyond that! I will always do it as long as he gets me in the mood! Lotsa times I’ll do a third time in a day but my man needs to get me in the mood for the third one

[Samantha3512]

Everyday

[God_of_Thunder]

Ideally? Probably 2-3 times a day, if it were possible & feasible.

Realistically? I could be more or less ok with 4-5 times a week, so long as I masturbate the other days.

[CindyRuns]

Once a day is great for me !!!

[Date_a_Snob]

I am so jealous you.

[GreenLanternI0I]

Since I haven't been getting Any for a very, Very, VVEERRYY long time LOL, 2 to 4 times a day at least for the next 11 months.

[MrNameless]

Once a day at least.. But twice would be nice.

[whirled_up_girl]

Every other day

[TheorionMage]

As often as SHE'S amiable.
My spouse was abused in her youth and extorted to spare her sisters by a manipulative relative... and later, cheated upon.

I can't change and undo her past BUT... I value her humanity such that I'd NEVER similarly exploit HER sexuality in her adulthood. I'll NOT be subjectively accused of marital 'rape' or coercion.

[CA4444]

Everyday 😩

[Date_a_Snob]

I wish I was

[ushagomez]

And we have a frequency just as we like it and it suits us both.

[Labokachulaa]

Daily isn't always realistic for me, so, definitely a few times a week at least.

[ArrowheadSW]

I would say probably around 3 times a week.

[Reece12345]

It depends how long we have sex at any one time. My record was six hours straight (this was actually the first sex I had with an ex... both of us had gone several months before that without any sex, so we were both sex starved) and I couldn't have that everyday.

For like an hour or so (which is what I've kinda settled on) once a day would be nice.

[tenor55]

Well, what I would like is 3 times a week. What I have is once a week, sometimes 2. My wife has some health issues so I will take what she is able to do. I either masturbate or she gives me handjobs to make up the difference. (She is 66 and I am 67). It also takes me longer to recover than it did when I was 20!

[mandyfire98]

Currently like 3 to 4 nights a week. Sometimes a couple of times during the night.

[Date_a_Snob]

3 to 4 times no way!

[mandyfire98]

3 to 4 nights. Why is that hard to believe? Lol That's normal.

[Date_a_Snob]

As a guy who is single that sounds amazing but unbelievable

[mandyfire98]

Well true if you are single you're not having sex like normally in a relationship or situationahip

[Date_a_Snob]

It's been a while

[Faith18letsgo]

5 times a week. Not like the full thing but just get head, give head, or mutual masturbation.

[SnowedIn]

Daily is good. I average 4-5 times a week, so that's good.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Monday to Saturday & take a break on Sunday.

[NathanDavis]

as often as she is in the mood as well...

if we're both into it, I want it... never a one sided thing

so to me, it is about quality rather than quantity

[Looksnicholas]

That image is amazing. And to answer the question... hmmm... if I was sexually active, I suppose about 1-3 times a week or maybe more. It's hard to say. Maybe even almost every day. Lol.

But then I guess everyone changes their mind or changes their answer over time or in, "reality" lol.

[MementoMori777]

If it was my genitals talking then it would be everyday but I know that would be wrong, lust is a real struggle to battle with