How old were you when you first had sex? How old was your partner?

0 0

Superb Opinion

  • My girlfriend was 15 and I was 16 and it was, unlike with a lot of people, a great experience. We were lucky enough to have the time and privacy that we needed and it was great.

    We lived in a small town in Michigan. My gfd's parents lived on an inland lake and they would throw a huge party every Independence Day. A Bar-b-q. Softball and darts and chatting on the lake. People would go out on boats on the dock and water ski or you would go swimming. Inside they set up a small mini-casino with a roulette wheel. It was a big event.

    Then, after dark, people would take their boats out to the middle of the lake, tie them together and have dancing and watch the fireworks display. After the fireworks, more dancing and a bonfire onshore.

    As I say, it was a big affair. I had been to a few before my girlfriend and I started dating - my junior year, her sophomore year, in high school.

    Well, that year, we took a pontoon boat out - her parents owned one - just the two of us. We went to the middle of the lake and after the dancing and fireworks, we told everyone that we were going to stay out a bit and just star gaze.

    Well, it does not take a rocket scientist to figure out what happened next. One thing led to another and we had sex for the first time in our lives. Unprotected sex, I should add, as this was not planned and teenaged hormones tend not to think very much.

    It was amazing and for the next few days I was sure of three things. 1) I was a MAN!!! 2) I was totally in love. 3) My girlfriend was the girl I was going to marry, get a house with a white picket fence, have children and live the rest of my life with. I mean I wanted to be with her every second!!

    Then it hit me. "Hey, what if I got her pregnant." The hormones wore off, the brain kicked in. I started to try to imagine what it meant for my education and college. How would we tell our parents?

    Truth be told, if I am to be honest, there was a part of me that was okay with it. I kept thinking that I would be a good dad and I could make it work. For the most part though, I started to worry and every day I would ask my girlfriend, "Did you have IT, yet?"

    The "It" being her period. She got REALLY tired of my asking that question.

    However, nothing to worry about. She was not pregnant and we continued to date and have sex - albeit with condoms, except for one time a year later when we did have a serious pregnancy scare - until her freshman year, my sophomore year, in college.

    My memories of her are still fond. Just that going to different colleges hundreds of miles apart made us grow apart. You grow up and the teenaged hormones wear off. Suffice to add that I am now the besotted father - with my girlfriend (we don't want to be married) - of three little Munchkins and I am living happily ever after.

    Still, it is funny. It was great sex and I am still sort of surprised how, even as I was having a panic attack I was open to the idea of being a teen dad if that is what fate (and my teen hormones) had decided for me. I was scared, no doubt of it, but I was sure I was meant to do it.

    Overall, it was a great - if not unmixed - experience.

Most Helpful Guy

  • it was with my now wife ,

    At the time I was 17, she was 14.
    She was my best friend’s little sister

    She use to get around in school. And had quite the reputation.
    She was my first,
    But she already slept with all of her older brothers friends before I had her.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Sexually active with friends from when we were 13, but waited until both 15 to end virginity.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

2 7
  • I had just turned 16, he was 37.

    • Nice age gap. I hope it was consensual.

    • It was, and only happened one time. Looking back I know it wasn't a good idea for either of us, but fortunately it worked out well and was a good experience for both of us.

    • That's awesome.

    • Show All
  • 16... I think she was too... then I moved up in the world and got a 13 year old girlfriend... she could suck dick like no other.

  • I was 21 and so was he.

  • I was 14 and she was 14.

  • I was 35, she was 33

  • I was 22 she was 23

  • It was on my 19th birthday. She was 30 and she thought I was older.

  • I was 16 and she was mid thirties

    • wtf lol

    • Yeah. No lie

  • Was 11 gurl was 13 wow