How old were you when you realized, you were attracted to the gender you are attracted to?

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  • Very young, maybe 4-5 years old.

    • Cute.

    • Yeah you better give me MHO

    • I wish i could take it back.

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  • 3 years old lol

    • Also no such thing despite the one off situations u are auto programmed to like the opposite gender idc what anyone says ain't no kid wake up and just like the same gender.

    • Aww, so young. That's adorable

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  • Before I knew what I was feeling was attraction and not just admiration? Probably 7.

    But because I grew up Catholic, I didn't know being bisexual or gay was a possibility until much later.

    I came out as bi at 26, but I've always been bi.

  • I have been attracted to girls and only girls since before I even hit puberty. After puberty it became x100,000 attraction toward women only.

  • Always.


    I don’t know how else to describe it.


    Girls never looked like anything but humans to me, but boys were always either cute or ugly.

  • I suppose around 11 or 12

  • From the time I was old enough to go outside and play with the kids on my street - maybe 3.
    I thought girls were cute. There was something about them. Sometimes I got a funny feeling when I was near a girl but I was way too young to think about romance or sex.
    One girl and I were good friends and sometimes played together. For some reason, I thought the nails on her small toes were really cute.
    From kindergarten on, I always had a crush on some girl in my class.

    • @Lliam My man. 🤜🤛

  • Probably like 7 or 8. I remember having my first crush on a boy around then.

  • Since kindergarten, I had a boyfriend in kindergarten. He was probably 2 years older than me.

    He kissed me and promised to marry me.

    Then other classmates saw us and they came to me and asked me to kiss them too if they wanted to be quiet about my kiss.

    Men will always be men :)

    I told them to get lost and tell anyone they’d want that they saw me kissing, I didn’t care.

    I was having dramas with boys ever since kindergarten 🤣

    • Oh and my dad tells me when I was even younger, I chased around boys my age and demanded them to kiss me, funny thing is they were running away from me 🤣

    • I made out with and saw a girl naked in kindergarten. It wasn't sexual though. We were just really good friends.

  • Around 6/7 when I went to school. I saw a boy interesting.
    then at 11 or 12 I like another boy. But nothing like boyfriend/gf…I like boys not girls

  • I don't know.. really I guess at 7..

  • I was young. Probably around 6 or 7 when I realized I liked boys. Probably around 8 or so when I realized I also liked girls too.

    • Aww so cute

    • I got that funny feeling in my tummy.

    • Why?

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  • I’ve always like boys. I don’t think it came as a realization. I just always like boys.

  • I liked girls when I was 3 years old...

  • 14ish.

  • It was around 5th grade when my girl classmates started growing breasts.

  • Very young, I was the kid that always had the cooties cause girls would be touching my hair and shit, when I was a kid

    When I was a kid I'd look at women like, I'm not sure why their hair is so long but I like what I'm looking at 😂

    • Lol.

  • Probably in 6th or 7th grade, whatever age that is, as I started jerking-off around that time.

  • I think I was 12 when I saw my first Playboy centerfold... and was immediately excited by it. It may actually have been earlier when I accidentally saw Judy Mott's panties in 2nd grade, (I was 6) and found it enticing.

  • i think when i was like 11-12 when i realized that i liked guys sexually & romantically for sure when i started getting my first real crushes and stuff like that. i do remember asking myself that question like am i straight, bi, etc and thinking about it then being like yea i'm def into guys and i'm pretty sure i dont girls like that

  • Probably 5 or 6 when I kissed my first girl and liked it.

  • Since forever.

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