How open are you to talking to someone who is not, your sexual partner about your sex life?

If you are open to it. Do you give details, or are you vague?

I don't talk about my sexlife or sex with anyone, but my partner.
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Superb Opinion

  • But I'm in a relationship I don't talk to anybody about it except for her I think it would be just between her and I I didn't find out until after a couple months but when I broke up with my girlfriend finally got her out of my house and probably about a month month-and-a-half later right in the same week two of her friends had come over to my house and one of my friends but her two friends started asking me questions they or not there together though but they both asked me some very weird questions about having sex because my ex-girlfriend had told them things about me and they wanted to find out if it is true and they wanted to go out on dates and I said no I hated women at that time LOL actually I just didn't like my ex and I just didn't want to be bothered buy anything anymore for a while and me being a smart-ass my comeback was not unless you want to be friends with benefits and they said yes but I think that's between two people and even answering this question you know I'm not going to go into detail and even on other questions sexual questions I try not to get involved the girl that I was talking about because it was between her and I and I don't get very graphic at least I hope I don't

Most Helpful Guy

  • I am okay with it and often times it is female friends I am discussing it with. Never any names but more often techniques for things that I like or do you not like as long as she reciprocates killing me thanks. Sometimes it can become a very arousing conversation which might turn into something stimulating for my sexual partner and me. I've actually had female friends asked me to show them or share with them certain sexual techniques in a type of clinical way if you want to call it that. Yes, that involves nudity and touching each other but I've always discussed that with my partner almost always before but a couple times after the fact and they are fine with that because they know that it is to bring more to our relationship or that of a good friend also.
    I also expect the communication and discussion to be two-way and open. We're all adults and any tool I can add to somebody else's toolbox I am always ready and willing to share that. It should not be a competition but more a form of enlightenment and maybe something new.
    That is just the way I am built and it also has deep and friendships with both female and male friends who are open and understand that part of us is being a sexual being and that is often detached from who we are out in public.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I am pretty reserved about it. I am only slightly open to talking about it to a couple of women on this site and to my best friends in person.

    When I talk about it with the girls, it is a very brief conversation and little to no details are given. It’s as vague as it gets, things like “we don’t do X…” or “we had sex..." and it is left at that. I can be open about saying very describing details, but I would rather not.

    No one needs to hear my very personal sex life details, that is only reserved for my partner. If I want to talk about it with someone, I will talk about it with my boyfriend because he is the only one who needs to hear it.

    • Exactly My partner is the only one to know my feelings about sex.

  • I’ll talk about it pretty openly depending on who it is obviously not coworkers at work and such but I’m usually quite vague with details unless I know their true intentions as I don’t want it to lead to something else if you know what I mean.


    I used to have a super close guy friend I was completely platonic with and we would share everything from ‘oh yeah we did xyz in xyz position for xyz’ detail but with usual friends usually it’s more along the lines of ‘oh yeah I like that a lot but I don’t tend to do XYZ’ then leave it at that if that makes sense and move on

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • am ok with that but other convos to not just talking about sex 2much

  • Close guy friend (s), for sure…change of subject from Futbol, cars, teams, and work 💩

    • Gotcha

    • You do that with women too, right?

    • I don't. I know others that do. But I'm so private about it, most of my friends assumed i am a Virgin, because i sit quietly while they discuss it

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  • Eeehh depends on the person I'm talking with. How comfortable I am with them and how open they are themselves.

  • I guess you would say I am somewhat open about it.

  • On a scale of 1 to 10, zero.

  • I have a couple of friends with whom we tell everything to each other about our sex lives. It really helps me know if my thoughts and actions are normal or just weird.

  • When I'm in a relationship I slowly lose contact with all of my friends so we don't talk.

  • well my sister and sometimes girlfriends but not all the time and not about everything

  • I have no issues talking about it with close guy friends or close girl friends. It is ok to talk about sex after all.

  • I'm an open person so if someone asks me I'll talk about it.

  • The more I do it, the more experience I get, the less I talk to others about it. I don't need to hear others opinions much anymore.
    Also I'm to the point where if my. partner isn't having a good time, or dosent enjoy something I do and choices not to make it aperent to me, I'm not going to worry about it. Speak up or forever hold your peice.

    Also to be real I haven't done anything that I think is worthy of bragging about, and I don't need to hear about other people saying what wild stuff they've done that I don't want to do or haven't been able to do yet. Its like if you aren't willing to show me why would I want to hear about it, and usually the people bragging you don't want to see nude anyways lol

  • Depends on who the other person is but I don't mind talking about sex in general, I would never tho give details about my partner.. like size or performance or whatever, so If I do speak about sex I keep the focus on me and my opinion or only on general stuff

  • I've done it before, to a certain point... with the ones I was in a relationship, but it was not that much about talking about my past experiences with previous partners, was more focused on some of the experiences rather than the whole detailed experience
    some partners get curious about many things, not just sex... that you've experienced and lived before

    it could have been the same way with a couple of friends that are girls, very close friends and same thing, just a bit of talk about experience and with less details

    one thing I never do, is to tell about other dudes... lol, I just don't

    and then I might have shared some of the experiences here at G@G, that were pertinent to a topic or question because well, I am not doing it in a crude way and because we're all still somewhat anonymous so... it all depends on the circumstances and I also do need to have a purpose to do so

  • I’m fine with doing it

  • I don't talk about it, but I have heard about it a lot from other people

    • Same

  • Depends on what they ask and how well I know them. I'm not telling an acquaintance, even if they're sincere, jack shit.

  • As open as you can get. I'm an open book

    • I kinda figured.

    • Wow, jumping to conclusions when you don't even know me. How rude

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  • Come on, we know both guys and girls talk about sex with their friends, coworkers and just about anyone who's willing to listen.

  • I don't talk about my sex life or sex with anyone, but my partner

  • Depends on the relationship honestly

    Some people are comfortable with that and some people aren't if you're comfortable with it but your partner isn't then don't talk about it if you're not comfortable with it and your partner is then they should just not talk about it

    If neither of you are comfortable with it then why would you talk about it and if both of you are comfortable with it then who the f*** cares

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