How sexual do you like a girl to be and how do you like her to express it?

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Bricealan · Accepted Answer

This is a real 'hot button' for me, as I SHOULD have commented about this to a girlfriend (really just a 'friend') when I was at Firestone Tire in Ohio. She, her name is Barbara, had a steady boyfriend, who was an Akron Police officer. (This was when I was 20 something) She was very 'penis curious" if that is a good term to use.
I had sent her a penis picture in office mail one time, and we exchanged sexual inuendoes many times. At one point, I jacked-off in her office (with her boss away) while she pulled up her skirt, showing me her crotch. After I ejaculated and ran to the men's room, when she saw me again, she asked me: "Was there very much" (assuming how much semen) I thought that was VERY SEXUAL, with the assumption, that she was curious of just how excited I was seeing her crotch. (It was not bare; she was wearing hose and underpants) We eventually played 'show and tell" as I showed her my penis, and she showed me her bush, (which was huge) while we were in her car after work. She would not show me her vulva, (labia)

We discussed other women in the office (their bodies, etc.) and many other very sexual things including masturbation.

To sum all of this information up, I THINK her boyfriend did not marry her because he was 'afraid' of her sexuality and how free she was in expressing it, and I think many men are not comfortable with a girl that expresses her sexuality like that. I LIKED her very much, as she was very pretty, and was very smart, and really wish I had someone like her in my life, but sadly, I moved away to California and never knew what happened to her or if she married.

AllGoodNamesRGone · Accepted Answer

The sexiest thing in the entire world is being really smart. And being thoughtful. And being generous. Everything else is crap! I promise you! It's just crap that people try to sell to you to make you feel like less. So don't buy it. Be smart, be thoughtful, and be generous... that's the sexiness u gotta carry 💫

Red_Arrow · Answer

Once a couple is being sexual, I think they should be able to be as sexual as they feel. And just openly express it in words and actions.

StrongMale · Answer

I think most guys would like the women in their intimate lives to be far more sexual than they are. I thoroughly enjoy a woman who is overt in her sexual expressions. I love a girl who tries to match my sexual wit and energy. I like a girl to be verbal about it, as well as expressing herself sexually in other, less tangible ways. I have been fortunate enough to be in relationships with a few women who were very sexual, and I can say that those are the kinds of women I am most drawn to.

Berethor · Answer

A balance between not being a prude or a slut? I prefer her to a virgin but not asexual.

NathanDavis · Answer

as long as she's genuine and very much confident in herself... I will be into it, into her

normalice · Answer

Basically a blow job any time there is a convenient way to do it.

MaxRobespierre · Answer

Like if she's a virgin I'd want to kiss at least and that's alright. If not ready sex I'll wait.

imjustadude · Answer

If she could walk around the house naked all day covered in oil and give me blowjobs everytime I sat down somewhere different then that might be enough.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I want her to be as sexual as she wants. I just want her to be authentic to the person she really is.

genericname85 · Answer

i'd like her to have a strong but exclusive sex drive and i don't really care in which way she expresses it. i9f we have sex, that's what matters. not how we get there xD

Ironic_Method · Answer

I like sexually aggressive women, but it's hard to find honest ones.

AndrésC64 · Answer

I want her to be herself. I don't want some over the top, hypersexual act in order to impress me. And I don't want some coy innocent act either. Being herself is the only way to go.

Havthrills · Answer

I lean towards the almost very sexual side. I would love it if she would walk around in sexy panties only as tease. Or completely naked too. Lol. She can express it with little teases of "accidentally" rubbing against me or just the way she would look at me.

Iron_Man · Answer

I don’t need to have sex before marriage. After it’s beautiful

Wise4myage · Answer

As sexual as she wants to be.

Caliguy88 · Answer

Good question. I like a lot of sex so I prefer a girl that likes a lot too. But my 2 long term girlfriends were also ok with me taking care of myself if they didn’t want it. I was ok with that, but I’d say they both had pretty high sex drives too. So I have no complaints there.