How should a female start sex?

With my boyfriend he is bored of me just kissing and then undressing him and going down on him
This is how I always start it

WhAt ways should a female start sex?
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  • I think the problem is a lack of variety. The correct way to start sex is do it differently every time. Yes throw in the favorite activities on a regular basis but mix it up a bit. Try new things. Buy a slutty outfit and surprise him with it or do the opposite and dress in something ridiculously wholesome and innocent. Give him a foot bath then dry his feet with your hair. Stick your finger in your pussy and get it wet with your juices and then hold it to his nose and ask if he thinks you're ready for sex. Just be creative or look on the internet for new ideas. Porn is full of ideas. It's not just for old single perverts. Find out if he is attractive to a celebrity with similar looks to yours then dress up and do yourself up like her and ask him to call you by that name in a role playing game. Or just walk up to him and start licking his face. I absolutely adore when a girl licks and sucks on my ears. Have him sit on the sofa and you sit on the floor in front of him with your head back leaning on his crotch. Turn on a move with some sex scenes in it. Then gather your hair and stuff it into the front of his underwear and then turn back around and just lean back with the back of your head against his crotch and watch the TV. Watch a how to video on lap dancing then surprise him by playing some sexy movie and then give him a lap dance imitating a stripper.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Start out by seducing him, put something very hot and sexy. On, if he's laying in bed get up on top of him start Slip Sliding your hips forward and back gently Lately by the heart touch. If he's naked that's even better because then what you start making him hard you can straddle his cock so your pussy lips are straddling each side of it slow motion slide forward and back Lean down and whisper in his ear how bad you want his cock that way you're dragging your clit all the way forward and all the way back the full length of his cock that's one way to get him started

Most Helpful Girl

  • 1. If you guys are cuddling you could push your butt against his junk and place his hand on your boob.
    2. You could also straddle him without a shirt on randomly.
    3. You could find out what outfits he thinks look sexy on you and tease him all day with some small dirty talk, and then at the end of the day sit in his lap.
    Or talk about ways he'd like for you to initiate sex and do that

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  • That is certainly adequate but if it is the only thing you do it would likely get quite bland.

    There are so many ways to initiate sex. Something that may be great for you to do is have him take a BDSM test and adjust accordingly.

    An example of something my ex would do would be asking a bit bratty and saying sarcastic ride things. Given I am a super brat tamer that basically always got me to start messing around.

    • Yeah I’m Not into any of that so I’d be faking it is there any other suggestions

    • That was just an example. Find what you both like. There is bound to be something you both share.

  • Why should you start?

    why not have him start?

  • With an ice cold gallon of fresh whole milk.

  • How do you know he is bored with it? Did he tell you that?

  • Any way she wants ;)

  • Reach into your vagina with your finger and tap him with it on his upper lip.

  • Any number of ways! Use your imagination.

    Stand near him and pretend to drop something and, when you crouch down to pick it up, start rubbing his leg and gradually work your way up.
    If you have a dildo, walk into the room where he is with it in your hand and say, 'Honey, do you have any ideas of what I can do with this?"
    Lets say you're gonna sit and watch a movie while eating chips with a hot melted cheese dip. See to it you're wearing something skimpy and dribble some of the cheese on your chest and then as him to clean it off for you... with his tongue. Maybe eat a bowl of ice cream and sit next to him before you squeeze the chocolate syrup into the bowl and accidentally on purpose squeeze onto your chest.
    Put a strawberry in your puss and ask him to dig it out for you. The sky's the limit, babe!!

  • depends on what all your both into and that current situation. for instance, say he is just rubbing your back and you get to feeling frisky. push your ass into his crotch and moan, not too hard of a push though. or if you watching something together, ease into his lap and wiggle on his manhood.

  • Strip down yourself and start masturbating in front of him.
    See if he'll take the hint.

  • It's time to add spice to your own pleasure rather than his pleasure. Rest you are The Queen

    • This is the best reply by far, you’re right here I am worrying I start sex badly yet he’s never had me mind blown or even a little horny maybe that’s the issue

    • Yes, let him work on you, anticipatory behaviour can make him more intended & inclined to you & your pleasures, let him find all your pleasures.. time to give him the deeds

  • I like kisses and being scratched and tickled by her nails playfully. Then reaching down in my pants and rubbing/jerking me.

  • Hold him off. Get dressed in the sexiest lingerie, but don't let him touch you. Tease him but make him want it.

  • Every guy is different. I personally have started most sexual encounters because I. love eating out. You got to see what he likes and does not like.

  • What you're doing is perfectly good... But in case he needs s change, how about giving him a strip tease to start and make him eat u

  • Wear something very seductive and invite him over. Maybe its time for him to come up with some new ideas?

    • Hey man, can I get your opinion on something in DM?

  • did you asked him what he would like?

    • He tells me nothing

    • so helpufll...

  • Ask him his ideas on what he like

  • Maybe do a striptease or let him undress you

  • Try getting undressed and playing with yourself in front of him... If he is like most men he will join in...

  • Just come into the room with some sexy panties on and nothing else ;)

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