How should I handle these drunk texts from my friend with benefits?

I'm a college student but have been hooking up with a guy from my home town since this past summer. We talked and decided not to try to start a relationship since I'm an hour from home, but have kept on hooking up over my vacations. The day after I got back on campus from my last break he texted me while I was asleep, wanting to know the next time I would be home next because he wanted to see me, and that he wanted to be with me as more than just friends, and asked how I felt about it. But, he texted me early in the morning again apologizing for the weird texts because he drank a lot, but he misses me already and likes me a lot and wanted to know when I would be home again. What am I supposed to think? Does he really want to be with me or did he just say that because he was drunk? I'm fine with the way things are between us now, but wouldn't mind actually dating him, we get along really well and the sex is great. What should I say to him, or should I wait for the next time I see him in person? Thanks!
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  • wow. OKAY. listen girl, this guy only wants to hook up with you. he is not serious about starting a relationship. I know you like him but to be honest if you keep going back to him and hooking up, that's all he is going to see you as. his f***buddy. you need to give it a rest, and make him understand that if he wants to have sex with you again, it will be a long time, and you have to be in a relationship. his drunk texts IGNORE THEM. don't ever reply . he's probably with his friends after he hooks up with you. he even said, "when is the next time you're coming over because he wants a relationship" like dude that's complete bullsh*t. you shouldn't just give your cookie to him every time you're on break. he's not the right guy for you if he's just a hook up. NO. if you keep hooking up with im, I swear you're the one getting hurt in the end. I don't want that to happen to you, because I feel like every girl deserves a guy that is more than willing to be with her than just a hook up.

    good luck babe. xoxo

  • Well. The truth comes out when someone is drunk, so you must really be on his mind , he must really want things to pull through with you!

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  • Ignore drunk texts. Only respond to sober ones