How should I approach a guy asking for casual sex?

So I want to have many "friends with benefits" type relationships with my guy friends- I just have no idea how to approach them with the topic. Any ideas?
Yay friends with benefits (to include casual sex)
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No. Never have casual sex.
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It depends on the people and relationship.
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  • I get the feel from this that you want a relationship deep down inside with some of your male friends, but they do not. Most of the time when a friends with benefits gets started, one of the two secretly (or openly) wants more.

    Save yourself emotion pain and reject this horrible idea. You're basically going to become the pass-around whore for your guy friends. Do you think that they'll respect you for that? They won't. In fact, they'll lose all respect that they currently have for you.

    Do this instead: Get a boyfriend. Or (if you insist) get a male who is not within your friend group and have just one friend with benefits. Otherwise you'll lost respect from your guy friends and probably any female friends that you have!

  • Chances are you're going to regret it since one of the people involved usually develops feelings and it just all falls apart, taking the friendship with it. I'd say if you're trying to have a bunch of them then the chances of this happening to you a lot are gonna be high.

Most Helpful Girl

  • No no no don't do it you'll only regret it later and most def him unless you plan on marrying him or become pregnant!

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  • any way would work because it doesn't take much convincing. But this is a TERRIBLE idea!!!

  • Hi john. listen.. i know this sounds forward, but i find you attractive and i would like us to be intimate in an open relationship. I don't expect an answer right now. But I appreciate you are honest and straightforward with me.

  • I feel like absolutely any approach would work =P

  • its a girl asking guys to fuck around. just ask if they wanna fuck.

  • just ask them if they want to go to bed and screw each others brain's out

  • Have them come over. Answer the door naked and have it go from there.

  • this stuff get´s ugly most of the time... one develops feelings, the other doesn´t and the drama commences.

  • So, essentially, you want to be a slut?

    • dont be a cunt

    • She's basically saying she wants to go out and be a slut. I'm just telling it how it is

    • From what I read, she is keeping it among her guy friends. There's usually a degree of attraction on one side of a opposite-sex friendship anyway. A slut would be asking strangers downtown or at the mall.

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