How should I feel and do when I suspected a guy masturbated to me during Zoom online class?

So everyone has to switch on their videos during Zoom online class. I saw this guy had his upper part of body shaking (shoulders and hands), without smiling while looking at the screen. I couldn't see the lower part of the body tho so I'm not sure what he's doing with his hands, so I'm not sure whether he's masturbating.

Do u think he's masturbating? And how should I feel and do about it?
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  • I don't know. That is a bit of wild guess that could easily backfire (aka, if the guy did something absolutely normal, like playing mobile game or exercising with grip strengthener) into you being the one with dirty mind. People at school can be quite mean if given the chance.

    I would suggest getting more evidence for example by asking your friends if they noticed something unusual or waiting whether that happens again before making any accusations. Like what made you think he was masturbating (that isn't the first explanation that comes into mind, and "poker face shaking arms" isn't conclusive evidence. For all we know he could have been even holding diarrhea) or what makes you think that guy was masturbating to you specifically.

    However if you really 100% sure you should report him to the teacher so the teacher can call him on his actions and/or prevent them if he repeats it (teacher could ask him to lower camera under the excuse of "I think you are not listening but playing games or whatever" or ask him to stand up)

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  • Honestly he was probably just taking notes but if he was masturbating it’s quite creepy. I’m sure if they masturbated once they are likely to do it again so just examine the situation better next time.

    • Nah don't think he's taking down notes. The lesson doesn't even require taking down notes

    • If he seems like the guy to masturbate to women on a zoom call then chances are he probably was. If he was masturbating it is creepy but honestly pretty impressive for you because it means your really good looking. (Unrelated) - Could you please leave an opinion on my post

    • Does a girl have to be really good looking for a guy to masturbate as what you've mentioned?

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  • first of all he may just be taking down notes (even if the lesson is easy) or he is doing something not right but not like what you think (he may be playing games or smth) and next of all since when did you find yourself involved in what he is doing since you are in an online class but aren't they others too?

  • He could have been doing a number of things like online gaming typing on chat, all things that make his arms and shoulders move. How many people were in this zoom chat?

  • There are plenty of weirdos out there.

  • Sure sounds like he might have been. How did you feel about it?

    • How sure are you that he did it?

    • It’s just a hunch.

  • Jesus. I could never do that. I don't know. I’m sure it’s hot to some guys. I wouldn’t be able to hide it even if I wanted to.

  • Just kindly ask him what he’s doing. Show him you aren’t going to let up. Be stern, but don’t accuse him of masturbating just yet.

  • Flattered

    • Why do you think I should feel flattered?

    • Because he thinks you’re hot

    • Urmm I dressed up modestly tho. I don't even wear anything revealing, or anything that shows skin...

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  • When I would be a pretty you g Girl I would feel flattered but most Girls think it's weird or creepy

    • So you're saying he's masturbated because he finds the girl pretty?

    • Of course. Isn't It obvious? He could masturbate to everything porn Pictures whatever but he did it for that girl

    • Errr that girl is me tho... But from my information above, do you think he really did masturbate? I just suspected tho cause his upper body (head, shoulders, hands & face) were shaking, and he didn't smile. Couldn't see the lower body part

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  • Take it as a compliment

    • Why would you say so?

    • He was obviously horny and had a good time fantasizing about you

  • If you're into him you may want to follow his lead. If you're not, try to block him or report him to the teacher/professor.

    • Even if I report, I won't have evidence as I couldn't see the lower part of his body. So I'm not sure what he's doing with his hands... He may or may not be masturbating

    • You could tell the teacher you think he's doing something inappropriate during the Zoom class and to keep an eye on him. Maybe come up with a signal let the know teacher when you think the guy is masturbating, like scratching your ear twice.

    • Also what do you mean by if I'm into him, I may want to follow his lead? Like what kind of lead?

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