How should I feel if someone offers me money to have sex?

[Anonymous]

I was playing ping pong with my friend at my university residence and two of his friends were there. One of them asked to use my bathroom to go to the toilet. After I showed him where the bathroom is he told me he had some money and that he only needed fifteen minutes.

I didn’t understand what he was talking about and then I realised that he was saying he wanted to have sex in exchange for money. I said no thank you and I told my friend that I had homework to do and so I would not be able to go out on the student pub crawl with them like we had planned with our group of friends.

Why would someone say that to me? I was so shocked I couldn’t believe that someone would ask me that. How should I feel about that?

[Makeushiver]

I don't know that the comment was the mst tasteful but it was definitely a compliment. Next time, however much he offers, tell him "it's not quite enough, I usually get (then name a figure that is about $199 more then he offered, That will blow his mind. There are worse fates than getting paid to have sex esp. if you are highly sexual and restrict trade to only those men you find attractive

[Asker]

I’m not a prostitute I’m a married PhD student and my husband is a surgeon

[Asker]

No amount of money will be enough 🤢

[Anonymous]

Because some people think everything is for sale, including sex, and someone's dignity. Everything has a price. Even someone's dignity. It's just sex. Just 15 minutes of your life.

What's your price?
Would you do it for $100?
$1,000?
$10K?
$100K?
$1M?
What's your price?

Some can't be bought, but that doesn't mean some won't try.

No, I'm not trying to buy you, just indicate an example.

[Opinion Owner]

How should you feel? You should feel however you feel. We can't tell you how to feel.

[Asker]

I’m married so I guess I did have a price it was marriage. My husband never says negative things about me but once he told me I was expensive in a joking way 🙃

[Icybread]

You should've kicked him in the balls

[Asker]

I’m a gentle person I don’t like violence

[Wise4myage]

Insulted?

[TallAnon]

Why are you asking others how you should feel? You feel how you feel.

[Asker]

I have autism it’s sometimes difficult for me to interpret my feelings. I want to understand what a normal reaction would be.

[TallAnon]

Don't worry abour it, there's no wrong feelings

[whosnumber1]

well it was a pretty stupid thing to say but I would make it his problem not yours

[jimmy2]

He was desperate

[Nice222]

You should feel proud that he felt you were good looking enough, and that he so under your standards that he had to pay you for it.

[Nightmoon88]

You should feel glad that he chose you to do that with. But you did the right thing now I will say this if you wanna pay your way through college you could tell these guys you will do them for 200 bucks each and make sure they get tested before hand and show you the test results

[Asker]

That is absolutely disgusting I don’t need to sell myself.

[Nightmoon88]

I’m not saying you have to I’m saying that’s an option if you want to do it

[Asker]

What sort of person wants to do that?

[Nightmoon88]

Hey Iv seen it in college so you never know

[Anonymous]

That's disgusting. Don't associate with him again.

[Anonymous]

Why didn’t you take the offer? Even if it’s days later?

[Asker]

Because I’m married and wealthy

[Anonymous]

That if the whole college education thing doesn't pan out that you have a fallback?

[Asker]

🤢 🤢🤢